- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
When planning the wedding, Fiance decided he didn’t want a best man. He felt equally as close to all of the groomsmen, so he wanted them all to be the same.
But now, we are nearing less than three months before the wedding and so far, no plans have been made for a bachelor party. We live with family, with three other people, so having it at our house (which isn’t ours) doesn’t seem attainable.
He really wanted to go camping, but it’s going to be freezing then. And no where around here allows alcohol on camp sites. I suggested cabins, but he didn’t like that idea.
I’ve been really really thinking about asking his friend to host the bachelor party. So far, I’ve gotten three people who want to host my party and I don’t want to have a party if he can’t. I thought of politely suggesting to his friend that no one has come up with anything so far. I would plan it myself but not only do I have no idea what to plan, we’re broke.
Would it be rude to ask his friend to help plan? I’d ask his brother, since that wouldn’t be so bad, but he’s living with us right now, and so far, things with him have been so frustrating. (He’s been having problems with major attitudes and for lack of a better word has been acting pretty mean to us).