(Closed) Would it be strange….

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

wait….the end of 2012 of 2013?????

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

If you have that tight of a timeline, I would consider it. I mean, it’s not like you’re one of those crazy chicks who goes to sample sales without even thinking engagement is pending. You know it’s going to happen and alterations take FOR-EV-ER. You want that time. If you wait until the summer, I hope you’re the exact size of the sample gowns (I think that’s a six) or you will have to have to pay someone a rush order.

 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@missaliam:  I would say that if that timeline is so important to you, then you might want to consider talking with your guy about your expectations. Just make sure you’re calm and rational when you do it. If you’re emotional and crying then he’s going to wind up feeling guilty and pressured into it. Just sit down and calmly mention that you were hoping for a timeline update. It could be that he has really legitamately good reasons for not doing it quite yet (money is one thing I can think of), but you won’t know until you ask.

Would you consider pushing the wedding back into early to mid 2014? I know that isn’t an option for a lot of people (like if you’re dating an American Accountant like me), but it might be something to consider if you want some wiggle room.

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