(Closed) Would it be too weird if I have my flower girls walk down before my ring bearer?

posted 4 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 1
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Caldwell Chapel / Sawyer Hayes Community Center

Hi! My ring bearer is my little brother. He just turned 7. My flower girls are just babies. One will almost be 2 and the other will not even be 1 yet. The flower girls will be walking down the aisle with their dad (he’s a groomsman). I bought one of those cute signs that says, “Matt, here comes your girl” for my little brother to carry down the aisle since the girls will be too young to do that for me. I bought it and then started thinking about how it will work if my ring bearer walks in front of the flower girls and their dad. That would be strange. But I also don’t think it would look very good for 4 people to be walking down all at once if my ring bearer walks with my flower girls, who by the way will not be throwing flower petals. Do you think it would be weird if I have my flower girls walk down before my ring bearer? It’s the only real solution I’m coming up with, since I really, really want to use that sign. Any suggestions appreciated! Thanks 🙂

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Post # 2
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Although it may not be what usually happens, I think if that’s the best way you see it can work out, to go for it. Do you have a day of coordinator? They may have some tips for you. i think it would perfectly fine to break the normal course of procession. After all, people include their dogs sometimes! That’s more strange to me than the flower girls going after the ring bearer. 🙂 People may not even noticed. After all, once they see the flower girls I’m sure they’ll be taken up with how adorable they are!

Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I had no idea it was done the other way, so I wouldn’t notice.

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Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

mattiematilda:  There are no rules or laws with which you need to concern yourself.

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