(Closed) Would it be weird to have fiances aunt as bridesmaid?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What do you think?
    Yes, its weird you shouldn't have her as a bridesmaid!! : (5 votes)
    17 %
    No, its not weird! : (22 votes)
    76 %
    Maybe, I can't decide either or. : (2 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5963 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    I don’t see why not, I mean, mother of the bride gets to be mother of the bride, that’s pretty special on it’s own, so do what you want, but if you are really worried about hurting anyone, you might want to test the waters by telling your Mom who your possible line up is for the bridal party and get some feedback from her.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1638 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Roxykitten:  I think it’s a great idea. My Darling Husband had his uncle as a Groomsmen. His uncle is in his 60’s and my Darling Husband is in his early 30’s.

    Post # 6
    Member
    5963 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    @Roxykitten:  Oh, yeah…I got a little confused, but I still don’t see how that matters, the moms on either side get their own laurels in a wedding, so it should be ok.

    Post # 7
    Member
    786 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I don’t think it’s that weird, have you run this by your Fi?  What does he think about it?

    Post # 11
    Member
    786 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Roxykitten:  Yes, I definitely think you’re thinking too much about it!  If your Fi thinks it’s a great idea too than do it!  Maybe you two or he can mention it to his mom ahead of time just so she’s not surprised.  But if she already knows how close you two are than I think she would be ok with it.

    Post # 13
    Member
    78 posts
    Worker bee

    I don’t think it’s weird! If you are close to her, have her! 

    Post # 14
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    2961 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Actually I am confused as to why anyone would consider it weird at all. If you like/love her, and she is agreeable, then that’s all that matters.

    My FH is having his Dad as Best Man. His Dad is 75 years old!

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