- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
We are having a hard time deciding how to involve certain people in the wedding. We have decided on the bridesmaids and groomsmen (6 each). My Fiance already told one of his friends he could usher. And now we have 3 female friends that we would like to have involved. 2 of them will probably be readers, but we really don’t have a need for 3 readers. We don’t really have any specific males in mind to ask to be ushers, but we could find someone if having a female usher would not work.
I don’t really want to make her feel like she has to do it if it would be weird for her. And what would she wear? I think we were planning on the male usher having a matching tux to the groomsmen, but I’m not going to have her wear a bridesmaid dress. We are having a church ceremony that is kind of formal.
If you think we should go with two men as ushers, are there any suggestions to what the third female could do to still be involved?