(Closed) Would people think we’re “bad”???

posted 8 years ago in Paper
  • poll: Do you think anyone would be offended?
    Yes--don't do both first names until after the wedding. : (2 votes)
    4 %
    No--it doesn't matter. : (45 votes)
    85 %
    Mmmm ice cream is yummy, what was the question? : (6 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
    3601 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    Honestly, I don’t think anyone would notice.



    (Also: mmmm ice cream is yummy!)

    Post # 4
    2476 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We’ve lived together for over 2 years now and used both our names on the return address… didn’t think twice about it, lol!

    Post # 5
    193 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I dont think that anybody would notice

    Post # 6
    546 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I did both of our names on our return envelopes, I didn’t really care if anyone thought negatively of it.  We have been dating for six years, so I would think most people we know would assumed we lived together long before we did.  Then you can use it afterwards!!

    Post # 8
    181 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    if anything, people will assume that you chose 1 address for wedding stuff.

    Post # 9
    8353 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    We also live together and I just sent out the save-the-dates with both our names on it. I don’t see a problem with it, especially if everyone knows you live together.

    Post # 11
    360 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I would definitely use both of your names. I dislike the phrase “living in sin,” but honestly I really don’t think you’ll be judged for your address label. I would assume most of your guests know you well enough to know where you live and even if we werent living together, I would want both of our names on the return address and the RSVP address (your wedding is an event for both of you, so the guests who don’t know you live together probably wont think anything of the address label anyway). Plus, you’ll be able to use the stamp again for thank-yous if it has both your names πŸ™‚

    Post # 13
    1765 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I like the stamp, and yummy ice cream πŸ™‚

    Post # 14
    98 posts
    Worker bee

    I don’t get this concern and I don’t think anyone will think badly of you.  Even if my Fiance and I weren’t living together, I still would have put both our names and only one address on the envelopes.  Some of his guests don’t know who I am so they may have been skeptical to open the invite if only my name was on it (same thing goes for my side if only his name was on it).

    Post # 15
    1347 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Haha… we just ordered an Etsy stamp too. Yeah, this might create some waves in my family. I am almost positive that my aunts (very traditional and conservative) don’t know we’re living together. Maybe I’ll handwrite the address for their envelopes and put the return address as my parents’ address…

    Post # 16
    295 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    It doesn’t matter unless you’re trying to keep it a secret that you live together (which, honestly, if you own a house together, doesn’t make too much sense at this point… πŸ™‚ If you’re worried, maybe have family who know break the news that you’re living together to those who don’t?

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