Post # 1
It’s Monday, I’m about to start my period (TMI, I apologize), it’s cold, and I’m tired. And best of all, I just saw an email that Fiance sent to his groomsmen last night and uuugh it totally annoyed me.
He provided all the necessary information that I asked he include, but then he makes a comment about his bachelor party saying something like “I have absolutely no preference about a bachelor party so y’all have at it. In the interest of this marriage actually happening I just ask that there be no hookers involved under the premise that they’d be paid for sex, lol”. Um, no. I’m not really lol-ing. Do you mean hookers can be involved if they are under the impression that they can have sex with them for free? Or no? I’m confused. Not so much confused, just annoyed because…well, I’m easily annoyed right now.
Disclaimer: Fiance is one of those guys who is, like, deathly afraid of (and totally grossed out by) STD’s, the dirtiness of random strangers (it’s the future doctor in him, I guess), etc. So him banging some rando–let alone an actual hooker–is less likely than pigs flying.
Post # 3
Honestly, he was probably just joking with his buddy. I wouldn’t take it too seriously.
Post # 4
Oh, I know for sure he was joking, it just sooo rubbed me the wrong way this morning. Probably not the best morning to have read it, but I was just wondering if it would have annoyed others haha! It elicited a HUUUGE eye-roll.
Post # 5
Lol typical men, they always make such stupid jokes with each other. Can see why it annoyed you though (but then, I’m on atm too lol)
Post # 6
I’d roll my eyes too, but take it with a grain of salt considering your mood 🙂
Clarification: not trying to say you’re Ms CrankyPants but I would be if I was about to start and it was cold AND I was tired. Treat yourself to a cafe latte or piece of chocolate!
Oh hey…did you guys decide on a medical school yet? Not threadjacking- just curious.
Post # 7
I’ve already had a pumpkin muffin this morning 😉 so I’m trying to get out of this funk.
As of now we’re still RVA bound. We’ve not yet heard decisions from the in-state schools we’re waiting on. Which, I suppose, is good news…it means he’s still coming up in those bi-weekly review panels! This whole thing is one huuuuge waiting game.
Post # 8
Unless he’s a repeat offender, please forgive him. IMO the whole wedding culture is so hyper-feminized that sometimes, as guys, we need to “macho up” whatever way we can. Unfortunately that often takes the shape of rude/insensitive comments. Hopefully one day wedding culture will shift so that men are razzed on as much for weddings… if I had to count the number of people (males included) who repeated that mantra “happy wife, happy life,” I’d run out of fingers in no time.
Post # 9
Oh, I’ve already forgiven and forgotten. Honestly yesterday was just a rough day and his little emailed comment about hookers was, I felt, in bad taste. He’s most certianly not a repeat offender, it just annoyed me so much at that point!!