(Closed) Would this be “off” at my wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1962 posts
Buzzing bee

Don’t think it is strange at all.  And if it causes drama amongst your girls (unless it is the Maid/Matron of Honor taunting them…very strange) then I would consider getting new BMs.

Post # 4
5655 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I don’t think it will look like that at all…. and it’s completely understandable that you want your Bridesmaid or Best Man that’s really doing over and above to be honored.

I think it might look a little more even infact, that you both have 3 BM/GM and you just have your honored Maid/Matron of Honor =)

If you wanna do it I say do it!

Post # 5
1869 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think it’s fine!  I have 3 girls and my Fiance has 4 guys, so it’s already uneven, AND I asked 2 of the girls to be my Maid/Matron of Honor because I’ve known them the longest and couldn’t pick.  The only Bridesmaid or Best Man is my FI’s sister.

So I think you’re doing fine!  Ask her if you want to!

Post # 6
3601 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I’m not picking a Maid/Matron of Honor, but Mr. Dear has a Best Man. I’m not sweating it.

Post # 7
3564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I feel like usually, you can’t really distinguish who is the best man at a wedding anyway, unless he’s in a different suit or something. So I wouldn’t worry about it at all!

Post # 8
1096 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

We have 5 men in the wedding and only 3 girls. Have the girls walk down the aisle by themselves with the men meeting them up front and introduce the Maid/Matron of Honor at the reception by herself. I’m introducing the guys together and the girls together rather than introducing it by “couples”. And if you want couples walking back up the aisle together after the ceremony just put two girls on the arm of one man.

Post # 9
6351 posts
Bee Keeper

Not a problem. i think it’d be fine.

Post # 10
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

We have 6 Groomsmen and 5 Bridesmaid or Best Man. I have a Maid/Matron of Honor, and he doesn’t have a best man. I think it’ll be just fine.

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