(Closed) Would This be Weird?

posted 10 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
4136 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i haven’t read her ceremony, but i can’t imagine there’s anything specifically identifying it as presbyterian. if you like it and it’s okay with your officiant, go for it.

Post # 4
1289 posts
Bumble bee

I don’t think that’s too weird. If you think your families might respond negatively to it, why not mix up parts of the Presbyterian with parts of what your officiant sent? Really though, if that’s the ceremony you want, do it. I doubt anyone would jump up in the middle with a “HOW DARE YOU?!” 🙂

Post # 5
1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I think if the officiant is expresing your beliefs, and you are happy with it, why not?  I think you are a very open minded individual.  If the prespyterian officiat is willing to conuct your ceremony, that makes me happy for you:)


Post # 6
5117 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think that using the Presbyterian service would be just fine, especially since you’re utilizing a non-denom reverend. You could always pick and choose aspects you like from each if you really think that using the full Presbyterian service would feel strange, but do what makes you happy and best communicates your love and commitment for one another. The message is what’s important 🙂

Post # 7
3598 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Yes, it would be weird and you are a social deviant.


Just kidding. Unless it says “You guys are presbyterian 4eva now, k?” I don’t think anyone will be the wiser.

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