- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Would it bother you if your husband/wife’s brother sent group texts that excluded you? For example, my husband’s brother’s daughter’s uncle’s monkey…sorry. His daugther’s birthday was last week, and apparently tonight they’re having a dinner. That’s the first I’ve heard of it. My husband was sent a group text that included everyone else back in November about it. I know my husband should have told me, but he didn’t realize I wasn’t included in the text. He just checked, and it’s like EVERYONE but me…his parents, his sister, her boyfriend, his other brother, and his girlfriend…
This bothers me because it’s not the first time. This brother constantly excludes me from things that are for “family only”. Like when their daughter was born, they were assholes abotu people coming to the hospital, so he ended up calling me to ask if everything was okay. I said yeah, and congrats, and can I come see her? And he said it was “family only.” OH OKAY THANKS ASSHOLE. Or taking “family photos”…I’ve never been included. I got it when I was just the girlfriend…could sort of understand as “just” the fiancee…but as the WIFE?