(Closed) Would this bother you…

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1849 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MrsD41503:  Honestly, I think you’re very stressed and this flower is the proverbial straw that’s going to break your back. I really don’t think anyone will notice or consider it an indiscretion. You’re the bride, no single hair accessory will take attention away from you at your wedding. Take a deep breath, you’re almost there 🙂

Post # 4
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrsD41503:  Sounds like she’s geing a bit attention grabby.

I’d just let her know that you’d like the bridesmaids to be cohesive so maybe she could save the hairclip for the reception…

Or, better yet, get hairclips for the bridesmaids as Bridesmaid or Best Man gifts and ask they wear them for the wedding day.


ETA: It probably wouldn’t bother me, but there are ways to combat it if you want.

Post # 5
2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sounds like an attention starved lady, but no it wouldn’t bother me.

Post # 6
1508 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Her wanting to stand out at your wedding would annoy me too, keep in mind no one will outshine you on your big day. Maybe ask to see a pic of the flower?

it sounds like she’s trying to get a rise out of you, I’d just let it go and ignore it as best you can 🙂

Post # 7
1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

This would annoy me but I would just let it go.  In the grand scheme of things, it won’t matter.  I was annoyed when a Bridesmaid or Best Man insisted on wearing her hair down like I was I just let it go and now 4 months after the wedding it doesn’t matter.  But I totally understand, who states they want to stand out as a BM?! 

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