(Closed) Would this bother you if your so did this?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 63
730 posts
Busy bee

Ap2010:  Can you please just remember that you do not know this guy? This is not coming from a judgemental place. I have been in a similar situation and I’m telling you what I wish someone had told me. You. Do. Not. Know. Him. I know it feels like you do. I know you bare your souls, etc. But you don’t know him in daily life and to talk about a future together before you know how it feels to be in the same room is insane. His plan to follow you back to college is insane.

Post # 64
1432 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Ap2010:  Look – we have nothing to lose by posting our concerns about this ‘relationship’ of yours (he’s your SO but you’re not technically dating?).  You, on the other hand, have everything to lose.  And it’s a concern that you’re dismissing 99% of the posts on here because you consider them judgemental.  

You do not know a person until you’ve met their friends and family (let alone met said person in the flesh).  I truly believe this.  How they treat other loved ones in their lives is an indication of their true selves. I would not start planning a future with this guy until you’ve met his loved ones. In person.

Post # 66
460 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Ap2010:  The point is you shouldn’t be concerned about him copying you, you should be concerned as to why a 25 year old man wants to go back to college to be not only close to you (a person he’s never met), but also be in your degree program and ALL of your classes. That’s seriously sketchy and really creepy.

Post # 67
173 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

The OP just isnt listening and keeps going back to the copying thing. Bye Felicia.

Post # 68
130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Tell him you are going to major in fashion design and see how responds. seriously he is just telling you what he thinks you want to hear or he is not smart like you say. He is straight up dumb and will go no where in life if he picks his major based on one you like. He clearly doesn’t have enough common sense in him to understand that this major determines his own success in life. I do think he was just saying it thinking it would charm you. His game sucks. Glad you aren’t meeting him anytime soon. 

Post # 69
3682 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Your parents are failing you. Your internet usage needs to be monitored – in no way are you capable of safely talking to people via the internet. 

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