(Closed) Would this irritate you as well, or is it just me?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

huh?  2 pm is not Friday night.  LOL.  I’d be upset too.

Post # 4
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yeah that is pretty irritating! I too like to have things cleaned up and well kept for company, and it helps if they come within the time they offered!

The joys of family 🙂

Post # 5
4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’d be seriously irritated, bordering on POed.


Post # 6
9670 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Miss Sorbet:   I would be completely annoyed by that, too. 

Post # 7
661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would be mad, and at Darling Husband too for leaving work early, thus enabling your boundary-challenged Father-In-Law.

Post # 8
1029 posts
Bumble bee

Ugh, this sounds like my boyfriend’s dad. He had an extra table, and instead of asking me if I even wanted it, he just told my boyfriend he was dropping it off at my apartment, but didn’t say when. Luckily, I had gotten off of work early, and just happened to check my phone, and I had a text from him saying his dad was on his way with the table. The place was a mess, and I hadn’t showered yet. Sigh. Some people just don’t understand the concept of not showing up uninvited.

Post # 9
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Ugh. Are you sure that my father didn’t show up at your house? My dad is really bad about this. He also has a tendancy to call and say “hey, mind if we swing by tonight?” Fiance or I always say “Sure. Come on over.”  but half the time he’s almost in our driveway when he calls so there is no time to straighten up.

Post # 10
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I would so be upset. It is inconsiderate and rude.  I am sorry! 

My dad lives in San francisco which is about a six hour drive or an hour flight and sometimes he would call me friday morning telling me that his is at the airport on his way to see us. 

Even though I know he was trying to surprise us, it was sort of inconsierate becasue what if the house is a mess, what if we have plans, what if were leaving for the weekend. I had to tell him that I love him and his visits but needed more notice then the day of. 

Your Darling Husband should tell him in a nice way of course. 🙂 

Post # 11
11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

LOL Sounds like my ex’s dad. I would clean up before they’d come over (thankfully they had a long drive), and his dad would ask if I knew how to use a vacuum cleaner. I almost told him to fuck off once.

Post # 12
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Honestly, if that happened to us. We wouldn’t rush home. That was their fault for not giving a time…


Post # 13
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Walnut Beach Resort

I would be irritated! Major guest faux-pas! Guest and Host faux-pas are one of my biggest pet peeves! Unfortunately the man I live with makes them often…

Post # 14
1765 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

That is so annoying. My FI’s dad does the same thing. Says he’s coming at dinner time.. shows up at 9pm! While I hide in my room in my PJs. I also always like to clean up the house when someone is coming… and I always feel like people drop in at the worst times. Like when I’ve just cooked something and there are dishes everywhere or whatever. So I know what you mean!

Post # 15
2144 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’d be really irritated and I probably wouldn’t leave work early. I would have told him he’d need to find something to do until we were home from work. Doesn’t he realize you would still be at work at 2pm?

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