(Closed) Would this little comment make you mad?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Would you be mad?
    Yes : (46 votes)
    18 %
    No : (212 votes)
    82 %
  • Post # 2
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    10254 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: City, State

    I think it was just a bad joke.

    Post # 3
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    5088 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2014

    It would be entirely dependent on his tone. I can imagine my husband saying something like that, but he would be saying it in jest and it wouldn’t offend me in the slightest.

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I would probably say something like, “DH, that’s not funny and you know it.” then continue kissing him and telling him I’m proud of him.

    Post # 5
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    9974 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I voted no, I wouldn’t be mad.  I’m on your husband’s side because I think his comment was harmless and most likely meant to be a joke.  I would laugh if my husband said something like that and joke back with him.  It’s fun to flirt with your own husband.  😉

    Of course being nine months pregnant you should get a pass for anything, lol.

    Post # 6
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    5950 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

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    kangaroo50:  Uhhhh….I feel like I don’t have enough information to make a good call on this one because its all about the tone with which this phrase was delivered.

    Post # 7
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    1285 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’d be annoyed but I wouldn’t dwell on it. Ifyou have a feeling that’s how he feels, I’d say something. But he honestly could have just 100% been joking, as tasteless as the joke is and didn’t realize it.

    Post # 8
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    1633 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    It totally depends on the tone. If he was teasing I think it’s fine. If he was serious (and only you would know because you live with him), he’s being kind of a dick. But honestly, if he showed it to you and was happy and proud of it, I can’t see why he WOULDN’T want you to praise him. So I’m wondering if it was a teasing comment that you took the wrong way.

    Post # 9
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    9129 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    Sounds like he was just joking. If so, yes you’re overreacting. Give him the benefit if the doubt. Do you REALLY think he’s legitimately accusing you of trading love/affection/sex for money? If not, ease up on the poor guy. 

    This is totally something my husband would say and we would laugh about it.  In fact, I laughed when I read that part of your post. I thought the offensive part was still coming, haHa. 

    Post # 10
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    9974 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

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    Nona99:  Hey you!  I hope you’re doing well!  🙂

    Post # 12
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    840 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I would have just rolled my eyes. Its just a bad joke. I doubt your husband thinks youre shallow or  a gold digger unless he makes jabs like that regularly.

    Post # 13
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    7430 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I imagine he was just joking, but it depends on his tone. 

    Post # 14
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    1246 posts
    Bumble bee

    Totally depends on tone!  Even if it was a joke, I wouldn’t find it to be funny. I’d probably feel a bit hurt.

    Post # 15
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    2166 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I instantly pictured him saying this sarcastically, mostly because we’ve joked about the same thing recently at my home due to my husband getting a new job with significantly better pay. 

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