(Closed) Would this look weird?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Would it look weird if two wore the same dress and one wore a different one?
    Not at all, Let them wear the same dress and have the other BM in a different one. : (8 votes)
    67 %
    Yes, so have the BM (sister) select a different dress. : (1 votes)
    8 %
    Yep, have the MOH pick a different dress. : (2 votes)
    17 %
    Tell the other BM she has to wear that dress too, even though she hates it. : (0 votes)
    Other, please share your idea below! : (1 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    411 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Put the girl in the different dress in the middle of the other two. It won’t look strange – don’t worry! It’s not worth the stress.

    Post # 5
    Member
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    so give her a choice – for aesthetic reasons, she can either choose a different dress, or stand third at the altar. Don’t phrase it that way, of course – phrase it as, “Well, I was going to have you stand second, but if you and Maid/Matron of Honor are wearing the same dress and Bridesmaid or Best Man is wearing a different one, it’ll look awesome if she’s in the middle so it’ll be every other dress!”

    On her own initiative she can switch dresses or stand third. 🙂

    Post # 7
    Member
    58 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I’d let them wear the dresses they want but try and “distinguish” them in other ways.  Is it possible to have the two bms in matching wraps and bouquets – and have the moh in something different?  Maybe even have to two bms wear their hair up or down (as long as it’s the same) – and have the moh’s hair completely opposite?

    Also, how are they walking down the aisle?  Is it possible to have the two bms walk together and the moh walk on her own – distinguishing her from the others?

    Whatever you decide, good luck!

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