(Closed) Would this make you uncomfortable?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i think it’s kind of the same as if he had conversations with co-workers at work, but since he works at home, the co-workers are online.  I wouldn’t worry about it!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

i don’t think this is anything to worry about, and i agree that it’s just like having friends at work that you talk to. i especially wouldn’t worry because he mentions you and she mentions her husband. i know it probably feels weird that he hasn’t said anything to you, but he probably doesn’t feel the need to tell you about every conversation he has and doesn’t see it as anything but job-related friendship. that being said, if it’s really bothering you, you should bring it up to him (in a non-accusatory way, of course )

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 1993

It doesn’t sound like you have anything to worry about. x

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@Ms. Peach: I don’t mean this in a negative way, more of a thought in general. Does he know you come in here and share personal information?

It is essentially the same thing, and as you say – these emails / chats were not bad – just friendly. it is no big deal at all.

My two cents as a guy on here.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Ms. Peach: i would mention it if it makes you feel bad. If you don’t it may eat at you but I have to agree that it’s probably the same as any at work convo’s that are had.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@meggyo: I totally agree! I’m sur eyou have convos with people at work all day and don’t tell Fiance every single one….I think this is a similar thing…..if he’s mentioning you then I REALLY don’t think you need to worry.

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

If he knows you have access to his email, then he would have deleted the messages if he thought they were innappropriate. The fact that they are out there in the open makes me believe that it’s innocent and there is no point questioning him about it.

Post # 10
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6571 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I wouldn’t worry about it. My husband didn’t know for a while that I spent so much time on here, not b/c I was hiding something but just b/c I didn’t think he’d care. He probably just doesn’t want to bore you with his work stuff.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I would talk to him about it  , but doesnt seem like a red flag to me 

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