Post # 1
So one of my future bridesmaids came into town from Ohio to visit me this weekend. Well we all hung out with Teddy and Teddy’s roomates and one thing led to another and they ended up hooking up (the roomate and the BM). Well, whatever, it was in his room couldnt care less.
Well last night…I was telling them how much I loved my couch and how it was brand new and we barely eat on it to keep it looking nice….and guess what…that night he came over to my house and they had sex on my brand new $2000 dollar couch that I just paid off. I am LIVID. So is Teddy…are we overreacting?
Thanks ladies any input is appreciated.
Post # 3
I would be livid, too! I mean, fine, if you’re going to hook-up in my home, whatever. I can’t stop you, even though I still think it’s a little disrespectful. Just don’t do it on my couch! Because, well, that’s just wrong!
Post # 4
1 – I totally see why you’re pissed. it’s gross.
2- Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can do about it, so I think you just have to tell them “not cool”, and get over it.
Sounds harsh but I so see why you’re upset! Are there stains?! God, I hope not!
Post # 5
I’m not sure if I should ask… but I have to… how did you find all of this out? Eww,
Post # 6
Well, was there anything… left behind? Any signs of usage. I’d be grossed out, and that’s a lil messed up to do on someone else’s couch, especially one just purchased. But, I don’t think I’d let it get to me too much. It’d be a silly fight to have, ya know?
Post # 7
I’d be mad but, eh.. whatever. Its done and over with so just move on. If they hadn’t told you would you have ever noticed/known??
Post # 8
Totally agree- that’s disgusting. But if they had to tell you- and there isn’t any noticable “evidence” left behind, I’d just have to blow it off. It’s rude and gross- but what can you do? Except vent to the bee’s because that’s what we’re here for!! 🙂
Post # 9
eeeeeeew I hope there are no stains or weird odors! I woud be beyond pissed. Besides the fact that it was brand new and expensive it is just disrespectful! By The Way did they tell you they did it on your couch?
Post # 10
I found out because she told me. She thought it was funny. I clearly did not. this is not a college futon…its a brand new couch…there was even a bed they could have gone to…but I think they wanted to do it on teh couch because i specifically told them that not even Teddy and I have had sex on it because we want to keep it clean.
Post # 11
Gross, I would be a little pissed off. I would be respectful of anybody’s furniture, that’s just how it should be.
Post # 12
YUCK! Definitely nothing you can REALLY do or say to them now other than NOT COOL! Is there anyway you can take a cleaner too it? We have a carpet cleaner that has a couch tool on it that we use that could take away some of the “ick” factor in my head
edit: we must have been posting at the same time, didn’t see that you SPECIFICALLY said something to her about wanting to keep it clean. Definitely uncool of her and I would say something if that was the case
Post # 13
That’s major disrespect. I’d be pissed. Especially since you two were trying to keep it clean.
Post # 15
Normally I would say maybe she didn’t know how you felt about it, but since you specifically told them that you hadn’t in order to “keep it clean” that is really disrespectful.
I would be upset, talk to her about it, but there really is nothing that can be done at this point. At least she didn’t leave a stain.
Post # 16
I would lean towards thinking it’s just a couch..EXCEPT you specifically told her even you and your Fiance wouldn’t do that because it was so important to keep it clean. And then she does that BECAUSE you asked her not to, then tells you about it, and laughs? It’s almost like she is determined to be spiteful. I definitely would be beyond annoyed.
Unless, of course, they didn’t and are trying to mess with your head. I have friends who would do that.