(Closed) Would this piss you off??(NWR and maybe TMI)

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Are we overreacting?
    Yes, its just a couch : (31 votes)
    25 %
    No...that was completely disrespectful. : (94 votes)
    75 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    I would be livid, too! I mean, fine, if you’re going to hook-up in my home, whatever. I can’t stop you, even though I still think it’s a little disrespectful. Just don’t do it on my couch! Because, well, that’s just wrong!

    Post # 4
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    LOL

    1 – I totally see why you’re pissed. it’s gross.

    2- Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can do about it, so I think you just have to tell them “not cool”, and get over it.

     

    Sounds harsh but I so see why you’re upset! Are there stains?! God, I hope not!

     

    Post # 5
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    1940 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’m not sure if I should ask… but I have to… how did you find all of this out?  Eww,

    Post # 6
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Well, was there anything… left behind?  Any signs of usage.  I’d be grossed out, and that’s a lil messed up to do on someone else’s couch, especially one just purchased.  But, I don’t think I’d let it get to me too much.  It’d be a silly fight to have, ya know?

    Post # 7
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    2006 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I’d be mad but, eh.. whatever. Its done and over with so just move on. If they hadn’t told you would you have ever noticed/known??

    Post # 8
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Totally agree- that’s disgusting.  But if they had to tell you- and there isn’t any noticable “evidence” left behind, I’d just have to blow it off.  It’s rude and gross- but what can you do?  Except vent to the bee’s because that’s what we’re here for!! 🙂

    Post # 9
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    eeeeeeew I hope there are no stains or weird odors! I woud be beyond pissed. Besides the fact that it was brand new and expensive it is just disrespectful! By The Way did they tell you they did it on your couch?

    Post # 11
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    311 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Gross, I would be a little pissed off.  I would be respectful of anybody’s furniture, that’s just how it should be.

    Post # 12
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    YUCK! Definitely nothing you can REALLY do or say to them now other than NOT COOL! Is there anyway you can take a cleaner too it? We have a carpet cleaner that has a couch tool on it that we use that could take away some of the “ick” factor in my head

     

    edit: we must have been posting at the same time, didn’t see that you SPECIFICALLY said something to her about wanting to keep it clean. Definitely uncool of her and I would say something if that was the case

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee

    That’s major disrespect.  I’d be pissed.  Especially since you two were trying to keep it clean.

    Post # 14
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    that’s very gross.

    Post # 15
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Normally I would say maybe she didn’t know how you felt about it, but since you specifically told them that you hadn’t in order to “keep it clean” that is really disrespectful. 

    I would be upset, talk to her about it, but there really is nothing that can be done at this point.  At least she didn’t leave a stain.

    Post # 16
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I would lean towards thinking it’s just a couch..EXCEPT you specifically told her even you and your Fiance wouldn’t do that because it was so important to keep it clean.  And then she does that BECAUSE you asked her not to, then tells you about it, and laughs?  It’s almost like she is determined to be spiteful.  I definitely would be beyond annoyed. 

    Unless, of course, they didn’t and are trying to mess with your head.  I have friends who would do that.

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