Post # 17
I voted wrong – I didn’t read all of your posts! At first, I was like, “eh…who cares.” But the fact that they had a bed and you specifically told her that not even the two of you have done it on the couch b/c you wanted to keep it clean, and she still did it? I’d be livid too. That is so not cool…it’s clear that she purposefully did it AND told you just to get at you. Jerk.
Post # 18
Eh I’d just tell them that you’re pissed and that was NOT COOL of them but ultimately it’s not a friendship dealbreaker and you will get over it. But you should definitely give them a piece of your mind.
Post # 19
I would be royally ticked…You are definitely not overreacting!
Post # 20
That’s really really ignorant. I know for Fiance, he prob wouldn’t let them in the house again ,if it were that kind of thing!
Post # 21
EWW. Why did they even tell you?? I’d be pissed. I wouldn’t end the friendship over it but I’d definately tell them it wasn’t cool. It’s just disrespectful.
Post # 22
i don;’t i’d be livid but i would be very mad about it esp heaven forbid it’s like suede or another hard to clean fabric eew
Post # 23
Ick, thats super gross. I’d be pissed too, and I’d make them have it cleaned.
Post # 24
Update: just came home and there definately IS a stain…now am i sure it was them? no…but I dont remember seeing that there before….and my couch is that microfiber material…very noticeable.
We just hung out for dinner and everything was ok…she is trying to make up for it and knows that she did wrong…still not happy about it though….
Post # 25
I think it would be fair of you to ask her to get the stained cushion (or all the cushions!) cleaned.
Post # 26
Uh there is a stain? I’d be super pissed. I would invite her over, show her the stain, and ask her to pay to have it cleaned. If she balked at all, I’d kick her out of the wedding party. Sorry, but 2000$ brand new couch, and she specifically had sex on it after you said something??? I have NEVER had new furniture, and currently have a worn out old couch…if I had a brand new couch with a sex stain, I would be livid!!!
Post # 27
I’d be super annoyed and expect them to pay for cleaning off the stain. It is so disrespectful. When Darling Husband and I had our first weekend away (like after a month or two of going out) and stayed at his friend’s place in the living room, his friend said “please just don’t have sex on my couch.” No worries – we did it standing up! There is *always* another option!!!
Post # 28
I’d be upset mostly because you made it clear that you wanted to keep the couch clean but they went ahead and did the nasty on it anyway. Plus she didn’t even try to keep it a secret. It was like she told you to taunt you. How disrespectful!
Normally, I wouldn’t care but it does ruin the novelty of your nice expensive couch. Have her get it cleaned especially since there was a stain. Sorry.
Post # 29
That is rude how dare they you have a floor for heavens sake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Post # 30
Oh hell! I would totally ask them to pay for that stain! The fact that you told them you were trying to keep it clean because it was BRAND NEW and they had a bed they could use just makes me angry. They were intentionally disrespectful. Urrrghh.
Post # 31
I think that was VERY disrespectful, especially since you told her that you guys didn’t even have sex on the couch because you wanted to keep it clean. Yuck.