(Closed) Would this piss you off??(NWR and maybe TMI)

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Are we overreacting?
    Yes, its just a couch : (31 votes)
    25 %
    No...that was completely disrespectful. : (94 votes)
    75 %
  • Post # 17
    5976 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I voted wrong – I didn’t read all of your posts! At first, I was like, “eh…who cares.” But the fact that they had a bed and you specifically told her that not even the two of you have done it on the couch b/c you wanted to keep it clean, and she still did it? I’d be livid too. That is so not cool…it’s clear that she purposefully did it AND told you just to get at you. Jerk.

    Post # 18
    3162 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Eh I’d just tell them that you’re pissed and that was NOT COOL of them but ultimately it’s not a friendship dealbreaker and you will get over it. But you should definitely give them a piece of your mind.

    Post # 19
    2580 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I would be royally ticked…You are definitely not overreacting!

    Post # 20
    1315 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    That’s really really ignorant. I know for Fiance, he prob wouldn’t let them in the house again ,if it were that kind of thing!

    Post # 21
    2203 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    EWW. Why did they even tell you?? I’d be pissed. I wouldn’t end the friendship over it but I’d definately tell them it wasn’t cool. It’s just disrespectful.  

    Post # 22
    332 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    i don;’t i’d be livid but i would be very mad about it esp heaven forbid it’s like suede or another hard to clean fabric eew

    Post # 23
    2195 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    Ick, thats super gross. I’d be pissed too, and I’d make them have it cleaned.

    Post # 25
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I think it would be fair of you to ask her to get the stained cushion (or all the cushions!) cleaned.

    Post # 26
    711 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Uh there is a stain? I’d be super pissed. I would invite her over, show her the stain, and ask her to pay to have it cleaned. If she balked at all, I’d kick her out of the wedding party. Sorry, but 2000$ brand new couch, and she specifically had sex on it after you said something??? I have NEVER had new furniture, and currently have a worn out old couch…if I had a brand new couch with a sex stain, I would be livid!!!

    Post # 27
    1102 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’d be super annoyed and expect them to pay for cleaning off the stain. It is so disrespectful. When Darling Husband and I had our first weekend away (like after a month or two of going out) and stayed at his friend’s place in the living room, his friend said “please just don’t have sex on my couch.” No worries – we did it standing up! There is *always* another option!!!

    Post # 28
    1254 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’d be upset mostly because you made it clear that you wanted to keep the couch clean but they went ahead and did the nasty on it anyway. Plus she didn’t even try to keep it a secret. It was like she told you to taunt you. How disrespectful!

    Normally, I wouldn’t care but it does ruin the novelty of your nice expensive couch. Have her get it cleaned especially since there was a stain. Sorry.


    Post # 29
    35 posts

    That is rude how dare they you have a floor for heavens sake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Post # 30
    281 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Oh hell! I would totally ask them to pay for that stain! The fact that you told them you were trying to keep it clean because it was BRAND NEW and they had a bed they could use just makes me angry. They were intentionally disrespectful. Urrrghh.

    Post # 31
    4544 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I think that was VERY disrespectful, especially since you told her that you guys didn’t even have sex on the couch because you wanted to keep it clean. Yuck.

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