(Closed) Would this piss you off??(NWR and maybe TMI)

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Are we overreacting?
    Yes, its just a couch : (31 votes)
    25 %
    No...that was completely disrespectful. : (94 votes)
    75 %
  • Post # 32
    Member
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I would be spitting nails at how mad i would be and i am one of those people that can’t just let things go also.  It’s bad enough if it just happens but for it to happen on purpose.  Because she laughed when she told you esp. since you told her u hadn’t.  I would be cursing her out now and make her pay to have it steam cleaned yuck. 

    Post # 33
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    9053 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I wouldn’t be mad if I’d never said anything and I just found out because I could hear some… associated noises, and they’d been tidy about it.

    However, I hate when people do things purposely to make me mad, so I would be if that makes sense.

    I would ask her to have it cleaned.  We have a guest room at my house, and all my girlfriends know that if they do anything in that bed, THEY get up in the morning and wash the sheets themselves.

    Post # 34
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    5822 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I would rub fresh chili peppers on their underwear.  That’ll teach ’em and it’ll put their equipment out of order for a while!  (But again, I am spiteful.  Don’t be like me!)

    I think she KNOWS she effed up, so it’s good she’s trying to make up for it, but the best way to make up for it is to CLEAN THE STAIN.  I wouldn’t care how she did it, but she needs to take care of that.  (OH AND HIM TOO!!  THEY BOTH DID IT THEY ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE!)  My microfiber couch has fleece throws on it so it doesn’t get dirty…what jerks!

    Post # 35
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    1810 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    If you told her specifically ahead of time, you have every right to be pissed. I don’t think it’s cool when people do things specifically because they know someone else won’t appreciate it– it’s immature.

    But at least she feels bad about it and is trying to make it up to you. I would mention that she should scrub the stain (knowing she probably won’t do it, but to see her “aw f—” reaction). Then I’d let it go. 

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