Post # 32
I would be spitting nails at how mad i would be and i am one of those people that can’t just let things go also. It’s bad enough if it just happens but for it to happen on purpose. Because she laughed when she told you esp. since you told her u hadn’t. I would be cursing her out now and make her pay to have it steam cleaned yuck.
Post # 33
I wouldn’t be mad if I’d never said anything and I just found out because I could hear some… associated noises, and they’d been tidy about it.
However, I hate when people do things purposely to make me mad, so I would be if that makes sense.
I would ask her to have it cleaned. We have a guest room at my house, and all my girlfriends know that if they do anything in that bed, THEY get up in the morning and wash the sheets themselves.
Post # 34
I would rub fresh chili peppers on their underwear. That’ll teach ’em and it’ll put their equipment out of order for a while! (But again, I am spiteful. Don’t be like me!)
I think she KNOWS she effed up, so it’s good she’s trying to make up for it, but the best way to make up for it is to CLEAN THE STAIN. I wouldn’t care how she did it, but she needs to take care of that. (OH AND HIM TOO!! THEY BOTH DID IT THEY ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE!) My microfiber couch has fleece throws on it so it doesn’t get dirty…what jerks!
Post # 35
If you told her specifically ahead of time, you have every right to be pissed. I don’t think it’s cool when people do things specifically because they know someone else won’t appreciate it– it’s immature.
But at least she feels bad about it and is trying to make it up to you. I would mention that she should scrub the stain (knowing she probably won’t do it, but to see her “aw f—” reaction). Then I’d let it go.
Post # 36
In an update….she apoligized over text message only…and all it said was “sorry…” I was kind of pissed she didnt talk to me about it in person. Now she is back in another state and Im not sure what to do…i mean the guy who she slept with has callled my fiance twice apoligizing…sent texts and apoligized in person…he feels like an asshole and is definately letting us know that what he did was wrong…her on the other hand…not so much. and she is the one who I am close with NOT him. it disappoints me that she hasnt said anything about it…just kind of shrugged it off….did i mention she is one of my BRIDESMAIDS?
Im not sure what to do…should I call her and confront her about it? should I write her an email? im just hurt …disgusted…and disappointed.