(Closed) Would you ask this girl to be a bridesmaid?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

When in doubt, don’t ask.

Post # 18
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Personally I wouldn’t ask her. Like you said your self you don’t know her that well and you don’t have a prefrence wether or not she is one. That should be your sign. 

I think your bridal party should make up of the people that are closest to you. People that know you and are willing to stand beside you in support of your marrigeNot just “who you should ask”. My mom suggested I ask my sister and I told her strait out no. We don’t get along and she doesn’t need to be in my wedding party just because she is my sister. 

Good luck! 

Post # 19
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’ve been a bridesmaid in somewhat of this sense, and I felt like she just needed me to make the numbers even between the groomsmen and bridesmaids.  If you’re not close, she won’t have an issue with just attending.  Trust me.

Post # 20
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would say dont ask her to be a bridesmaid but maybe find some other way to include her if you want her to be apart.

 

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