(Closed) Would you ask your man to get circumcised?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you ask your man to get circumcised if he was not?
    Yes : (32 votes)
    10 %
    No : (260 votes)
    82 %
    I'd discuss it with him but wouldn't disclose my preference : (25 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    4137 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    why does she want him to be circumcised?

    Post # 4
    1135 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2009

    No, I would never.  It’s his body and his choice, and if he’s happy and she loves him, it shouldn’t matter.

    Post # 5
    192 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @kitzy: I’m with you. Being circumcised later on in life is very painful and not a necessary procedure…it actually isn’t necessary when they are a baby it is a choice.

    Post # 6
    5093 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2012

    HELL NO.  If your future hubby asked you to get your clitoris sliced off, would you?  That is a VERY sensitive spot, and it would mean a LOT of pain on his part for really no good.  Unless he’s converting to Judaism, in which case it sucks for him.

    OW.  No.  Your friend is insane.

    Post # 7
    2496 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    I personally don’t think I would, just because I wouldn’t want Fiance to have to go through all that pain as an adult.  I’ve heard there are a lot of benefits to remaining uncircumcised (more pleasure/sensation), and I feel like as an adult having already experienced that, it would be unfair to ask him to change it because I didn’t like the look or whatever.

    That’s just my opinion though… I really don’t know what I would do because Fiance is already circumcised!

    Post # 8
    9053 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Umm… no, I don’t think I would ever ask someone to do this. 

    But, terrible somewhat related story about how mean highschool girls can be… I had a “friend” in highschool that broke up with a guy by telling him that she was grossed out by his uncut thingy, when in reality she just didn’t like him.  Umm… yeah, one painful surgery later, still didn’t get her back.

    Post # 9
    4770 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999


    That’s what I want to know.


    You should ask her how she would feel if he asked her to be circumcised.

    Post # 10
    5095 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    AAAAHHHH  no. no no no.  That’s horrible. I wouldn’t ask my partner to have ANY purely cosmetic surgery for me, much less such an invasive and painful one.  Yeesh. I had a friend whose asshole boyfriend told her she needed to get breast implants, and that was offensive enough.  This goes even beyond that.

    Post # 11
    353 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    No way, absolutely not! I wouldn’t ask him to something that is very painful and also unnecessary…

    Post # 12
    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Absolutely postively NO!  Not today, not tomorrow, never!  I couldn’t imagine.

    I consider it something that is unchangable as an adult. 

    (I still don’t understand why your friend thinks it’s such a big deal?)

    Post # 13
    238 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Does she just want him to do it for “cosmetic” purposes? If their sex life has been fine with him being uncircumcised long enough for them to be engaged, then I say, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”

    Post # 14
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    No! Definitely not – honestly I dont see the big deal about being uncircumcised – Ive hooked up with both and its not really that different…

    Post # 15
    699 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I’ll admit, the first time I saw an uncut one it kind of freaked me out.  But in reality, the only way I could imagine it being an issue is if he’s not keeping clean enough, in which case I think she could bring it up (delicately). No way would I ask someone to have unnecessary surgery for purely aesthetic reasons.

    Post # 16
    5147 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    No way!

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