- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Ok so my Man of Honor has been discussing my bacheloret party and my bridal shower with my Matron of Honor. He told me he needed the contact info of the people invited to the Bacheloret party so they could talk. So I texted my Maid of Honor to make sure it was ok for me to give her cell number away for the Bacheloret party info. She answered me with, “Sure idc, but I have a job now so hopefully we can do it on a day I don’t work or something.” We graduated from college on Friday and I’m pretty sure she is working at IHop again. The party shouldn’t be for a couple of months so I asked her if she could take a day off and she said Yeah I think so. I totally get that people have jobs and that we all need money, but there are tons of people out there that don’t live at home who are raising her their own family and working full time jobs yet still find time to be apart of their best friends wedding activities. I haven’t said anything because we still have time to get planning done, but the wedding is the first weekend of Sept. and it’s sneaking up on me. She has also been putting off getting her dress for quite a while. I’m hoping that now that we are out of college and that she has a job she will save up a bit for the dress. My parents said they would help her pay for it if she needed that, the dress is 75.00 so it’s not too bad…but I don’t know, I’m probably concerned for no reason, I just want everything to go smoothly and I would much rather somebody let me know if they don’t have the time or money to commit to this. She is really the only one I’ve been having small issues with. She has been seeming a little jealous lately making comments like, “at least you’re getting married…” so I’ve been trying to leave her be a little bit, but now I need her to start getting some things together and I’m not sure if she even wants to. Anyway, is anyone else dealing with something similar to this?