Post # 77
I would try to work through it, but as others have said, they lying part is what would really bug me. I would insist on counselling, and that he kick the habit. That said, pot would be the one drug I wasn’t as worried about, but I would still want the issue resolved. You need to talk to him. Ultimately this is your relationship, and you know what you can live with.
Post # 78
- Wedding: May 2014 - Beach
Well the lying is what would probably upset me the most! would i work through it depends on what he says when you talk to him! If aknowledges that he did something wrong which is lying then probably yes if on the other hand he gets defensive and blames it on someone else that would be a huge problem. I would say talk to him and try to figure out why he has been lying to you and why he does that. Is it just once in a while? is it daily? is this a dealbraker for you? Can you live with him and be with him eventough you know he does it occassionaly? does are things you need to find out about and talk to him 🙂 Good luck