Post # 1
One of my husbands friends came to our wedding and brought his fiance, she posted pictures of our wedding right away and i loved them..she got some shots, although not great, they were pictures my photographer missed…and the more the merrier right?
The next day, literally the morning after my wedding…she called and asked to buy my centerpieces off of me…they are curly witch hazel, which breaks easily and there wedding at the time was over two years away. I said, at the time that I hadnt thought of it but I would be more then happy to send her the number of where i got them.
A couple of weeks later she takes down all my wedding pictures….not ANYONE elses…just mine. I have convinced myself that maybe she is copying alot of my wedding and doesnt want people to see it…all the same..it just annoys me…why mine?
I contacted her and asked her if she could upload the pictures to a wedding site I had made so i could print them off, after a month she uploaded them back to facebook and said i could just download them….i asked her if she is in a rush to take them down and she said “no take your time I only made them visible to you” I want to know WHY…why is she hiding my pictures.
I know it seems trivial (well it IS) but it is annoying the hell out of me. I told my husband after her wedding im going to put up TONS and then delete them right after she sees them…BAH
Am i heading for the looney bin here?
Post # 3
- Wedding: September 2011 - Bent Creek Winery (Livermore, California); Reception: Family Residence (San Ramon, California)
I just find this all very…..odd. But I’m the person who can’t be bothered to get into a sort of passive aggressive facebook tiff, which kind of seems to be going on here with your friend. I have no idea what she’s doing (my first thought was that she’s mad at you for not selling the centerpieces and wanted to get back at you by taking down the wedding pictures). I don’t know. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. I’d take the pictures that you want and leave her to her own antics.
Post # 4
That is odd behavior to say the least. Your copycat theory might be right on the money, especially if she wanted your centerpieces. I guess you’ll find out eventually whether that’s the case.
Then again some people are just crazypants.
Post # 5
I definitely understand where you’re coming from, but if she really is copying you, it means she really liked your decorations and whatever else about your wedding. Her wedding date is two years away so I doubt anyone would even notice, except you.
Also, it’s possible she had the same ideas in mind before and didn’t realize you were using them. I went to a friend’s wedding a couple weeks ago, and she used the flowers, centerpieces, favors, decorations, and even some music I had already been planning to use. I was so upset because we had never talked about wedding stuff, so it wasn’t intentional, but I felt my wedding would be less unique. But, I’m doing it anyway, because it’s what I want and my Fiance and BMs convinced me that no one paid enough attention to those things to notice a year later.
Post # 6
*hee hee* thanks ladies. I know I am being a little paranoid…in all honesty I dont care if she copies my whole dang wedding…im just annoyed that she is hiding the fact., I dont know her at all, I think i have met her three times total and that includes her being at my wedding.
She is Chinese and she keeps all the weddings of her Chinese friends up…and my wedding was the first “white” wedding she has been to…so that may have something to do with it. I dont really care WHY she is hiding them i just more want to know WHY