(Closed) Would you be annoyed?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Would you be annoyed?
    yes : (13 votes)
    65 %
    no : (7 votes)
    35 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1474 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011 - Bent Creek Winery (Livermore, California); Reception: Family Residence (San Ramon, California)

    I just find this all very…..odd. But I’m the person who can’t be bothered to get into a sort of passive aggressive facebook tiff, which kind of seems to be going on here with your friend. I have no idea what she’s doing (my first thought was that she’s mad at you for not selling the centerpieces and wanted to get back at you by taking down the wedding pictures). I don’t know. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. I’d take the pictures that you want and leave her to her own antics. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    3482 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    That is odd behavior to say the least. Your copycat theory might be right on the money, especially if she wanted your centerpieces. I guess you’ll find out eventually whether that’s the case.

    Then again some people are just crazypants.

    Post # 5
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    2584 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I definitely understand where you’re coming from, but if she really is copying you, it means she really liked your decorations and whatever else about your wedding. Her wedding date is two years away so I doubt anyone would even notice, except you.

    Also, it’s possible she had the same ideas in mind before and didn’t realize you were using them. I went to a friend’s wedding a couple weeks ago, and she used the flowers, centerpieces, favors, decorations, and even some music I had already been planning to use. I was so upset because we had never talked about wedding stuff, so it wasn’t intentional, but I felt my wedding would be less unique. But, I’m doing it anyway, because it’s what I want and my Fiance and BMs convinced me that no one paid enough attention to those things to notice a year later.

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