(Closed) Would you be bothered seeing your S/O dancing with the opposite sex?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Non-crotch grinding dancing – I am OK with whoever he is dancing with.  I dance with men all the time because they know how to dance and swing me!  H is still learning.

Post # 33
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yes I would be angry. Very angry. Enough to leave without him and likely not talk to him for a few days and when I did talk it would be a raging fight with me screaming at him.

We don’t dance, neither one of us and he doesn’t want to do a first dance at a wedding because he can’t dance. So if I saw him dancing with someone else when he wouldn’t at our wedding with me, I’d take my boxing gloves off and go raw fists at him.

Post # 34
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@Serey:  LOOOOOOOOL.

I don’t know.  I think I would laugh.  I cannot see him dancing… ever.  If I saw some chick getting her grind on him, I would prob have to step in.

Post # 36
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@PoppyH: +1 haha I’d actually welcome the opportunity to be able to do that!

Post # 37
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I would probably laugh my ass off if I ever saw my husband dancing in a club, with anybody! He’d never be “serious” about it and honestly he’d probably try to make the girl as uncomfortable as possible lol!!! 

This would not surprise me:

Post # 38
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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@6598731ssfse3:  Ahaha, that is AWESOME! 

My FH doesn’t really dance, usually not even with me. I’d probably just cut in between them and start dancing awkwardly, maybe stare at her uncomfortably until she walked away.

Post # 39
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Helper bee

Friends would be fine- stranger not fine 🙂

 

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Sometimes we do stuff like this for fun when approached by others, but we never take it too far and it doesn’t last very long. I wouldn’t mind unless he was grinding or something.

Post # 41
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My fiancee is actually a really good salsa dancer…gotta love latin men.

I’m fine with him Salsa dancing with people with we know. I wouldn’t be okay with him sexy dancing with ANYONE ELSE BUT ME. Period.

 

Post # 42
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@ctobride2be:  It would shock me to see my SO up dancing period! lol! He never dances. But if he was the type to dance I guess it would depend on who he was dancing with. A close mutual friend or something would not bother me, but if he was dancing with random girls then yep….I would have a problem with that!

Post # 43
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Serey: Please for the love of god stop posting that racist photo.It is offensive.OP I would not want to see my Fiance dancing with anyone else.Unless it was his mom or sister…LOL

Post # 44
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I encourage Fiance to dance when we go out, he is such an amazing dancer….me? Not so much. As long as he isn’t bumping and grinding, copping a feel or doing anything disrespectful, I don’t really mind. He used to feel awkward about dancing with someone else, especially right in front of me but now he will do a little 2 step and go on about his business.

Post # 45
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

DH doesn’t dance….at all. The fact that he even got out on the dance floor at our wedding was astounding. I honestly could care less. We each danced with other people at our wedding than we danced with each other. Club dancing? Eh, I don’t see it as a big deal. DH would never go to a club, and I don’t really either, but it wouldn’t bother me if he was dancing with someone else.

Post # 46
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Depends what kind of dancing! I would be cool with a fun friendly dance or a ballroom style dance, but not with a close-up grindy sexual kind of dance.

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