(Closed) Would you be concerned if…

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I be concerned that my MOH hasn't set a date for my bachelorette party?
    Absolutely - you are nearly S.O.L at this point! : (7 votes)
    18 %
    Nah - you still have some time : (31 votes)
    79 %
    Yes - but you should... (please explain some options below) : (1 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    1498 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Is she the type that would plan a surprise party?

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    What if you casually brought it up? Like maybe tell her that you’re trying to make some arrangements for work and were wondering if you need to keep any dates clear for wedding related things with the bridesmaids.

    Post # 6
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    1317 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2017 - Seattle, WA

    Does she even know she’s supposed to be planning a party?  If the other bridesmaids want to help out, I don’t think they should be afraid of “taking over”.  Planning a bach party can be stressful.  Also, you could also jump in with some ideas of what you’d like to do, then have the girls help figure out the details.  I think that might take some pressure off.  Good luck!!

    Post # 7
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    3175 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @Dandelion D:  I agree, I would just ask under the guise of needing to make sure your schedule is cleared for the right weekend.

    Post # 8
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    2775 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Has she offered to plan the bachelorette party?

    Post # 10
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    268 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Oops! I voted “yes, but you should” but meant to vote “nah – you still have time”

    I think you still have plenty of time, but if it is stressing you out (and who needs more stress during wedding planning) I think you should talk to her or another bridesmaid. It seems from your response above that asking her for a date didn’t really work out, so maybe mentioning to another one of the bridesmaids casually that you are worried about your weekends filling up and being double booked for your bachelorette party will get the ball rolling on the planning. They may just be thinking she’s doing the planning and are waiting for her to get in touch with them, but haven’t thought of getting in touch with her. Your mentioning it might get them to ask about it!

    Post # 11
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    359 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I would try not to stress too much, it could be a surprise. 🙂 I have two close friends that just got married, I was the Maid/Matron of Honor for one friend and we totally surprised with a weekend getaway, even picked her up from work just 10 minutes after she got there. We had talked with her Fiance to make sure he made ‘fake’ weekend plans with her, we contacted her boss so she had the day off but didn’t know and it turned out great. My other friend I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man for, and her Maid/Matron of Honor kinda dropped the ball and didn’t plan anything, I kept asking what was going on but she kept putting it off, we ended up throwing something together in a couple weeks, so really anything is possible! Lets hope for the surprise, but I wouldn’t worry too much, she might have some tricks under her sleeve 🙂

    Post # 12
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    359 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Uuuuh, tricks UP her sleeve.. oops :S

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