(Closed) Would you be offended by this?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is this rude?
    YES. This is TACKY with a capital T! Emily Post must be rolling in her grave. : (224 votes)
    75 %
    Meh. I'm not offended by it, but I wouldn't send a gift! : (71 votes)
    24 %
    Not offensive at all! I don't see why you're bothered by it! The real question is: Ducks or kitties? : (3 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    3258 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    This is trifling. It wouldn’t offend me, only because Im not friends with this person, so likely they werent expecting anything anyway. Had it been a real friend or a relative, big problems. Highest order of unacceptable.

    Post # 4
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    672 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    It’s totally tacky and wrong… I just wouldn’t reply or send anything

    Post # 5
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    2523 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    People are just dumb.

    It doesn’t even offend me.

    People are just dumb.

    Post # 6
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    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    She.has.no.class. That’s all I have to say! LOL

    Post # 8
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    1487 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I wouldn’t bother being offended by it, but ONLY because it was on Facebook.  I’ve gotten a lot of these, people just invite their whole friends list, or friends of friends or whatever.  I just decline and go about my business.

    If I had gotten one of these in the mail however, I would assume it was a gift grab, and be way more offended.

    Don’t send a gift.

    Post # 9
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    979 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Really tacky and I certainly wouldn’t send a gift, but a probably wouldn’t respond or anything either.

    Post # 10
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    289 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    wow. someone just wants presents. “online” baby shower???? uhh…

    Post # 11
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    6216 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    wowwwwww. that is really really tacky. really. 

    Post # 12
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    663 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

    This isnt an invitation- its a gift grab. Rude.

    Post # 13
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    5958 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    What a no class dumpster woman…I would send her a copy of Emily Post as a gift for future reference in the hope she might be able to raise her son without committing another etiquette faux pas of this magnitude, thus endangering the pride and dignity of the son in question…he’ll thank you when he’s older.

    Post # 14
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    5221 posts
    Bee Keeper

    @Torrid:  I agree. I wouldn’t take offense, but I’d definitely give a big eye roll to that. 

    Post # 15
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    2107 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Super tacky. 

    Post # 16
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    2065 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I wouldn’t be offended, but I’d ignore the hell out of that “invitation.”

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