(Closed) Would you be offended if you saw this on a wedding website?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think it’s great. Not pushy and very clear.

Great job!

Post # 4
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Helper bee

Nope – I would find it helpful actually.  I would be the type to see “Masquerade” and show up in full Renaissance regalia…and end up being the only one.  O.o  Go for it!!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

I think it sounds great. It explains things without being overly pushy and I like it.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

@GreenEyedMoon: I think it’s perfect! I honestly wasn’t offended, taken aback, etc. I didn’t get the feeling that you were trying to dictate apparel at all.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I agree with the others – looks good.  You’ve spelled it all out for them and if anything, your guests should appreciate the information.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Totally fine.  Plus, you wrote everything in a friendly, inviting way.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Love it. I don’t think it’s offensive at all.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

You’re actually making it really clear that you AREN’T forcing them to wear anything they won’t be comfortable in.  I think it’s great.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Can I come? I want to live out my Labyrinth fantasies too! This sounds like so much fun and I think that post is perfect.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I wouldn’t be offended at all. I’d be super pumped!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@FlutterbyBee: lol, or anyone who’s familiar with “Vampre: Masquarade” would think something like THAT! LOL!

 

@GreenEyedMoon: It reads great and is very easy to figure out.  I can see some people even checking out those sites and buying their own mask!!!

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

No I think the more explanation/help you can provide to your guests in this situation the better. I just put “cocktail attire” on my website and I still had a lot of questions from guests, so you are really helping people out by putting that much detail.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Nope becasue you are clearly saying that you can if you like but definately don’t have to.

Great wording.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree, you make it very clear that you are not forcing people what to wear. I think the section will be helpful and informative for guests.

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