Would you be ok with signing a pre-nup?

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 61
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

I signed one and had no issues doing it. Darling Husband father is leaving him a very substantial amount of money and insisted I sign one. I get along really good with his Dad, it’s just the way he is. He says “Once I’m gone, y’all can tear it up for all I care.” My Darling Husband was so uncomfortable aout it though. No biggie to me.

Post # 62
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663 posts
Busy bee

I will be asking my fiance to sign one. He is very respectful of my situation and is already very adamant about keeping my money/my family money separate from his, so I don’t think it will be an issue, but I will be approaching it delicately.

Post # 63
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311 posts
Helper bee

I wouldn’t have a problem with signing a pre nup. I would just need to have my lawyer look over the document and also negotiate the terms.

Marriage isn’t all about love and romance. There are practical aspects of marriage such as finances. Divorce is always about money so I can see why someone would want to protect their assets. 

Post # 64
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279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Yep! I asked my Fiance for one and he was totally on board. We love each other and can’t wait to get married… but also are both children of divorced parents and understand their value! My parents had one and were very glad. His parents did not have one and were very sorry. Ultimately, I get the argument either way. That’s just our position!

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