(Closed) Would you be okay if with FI staying at his close friends place who is female?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Just read the title…….NO

 

Edit: I dont blame you at all. I know you trust him, I would trust my husband too but this is starting to step over boundaries. Not a good idea.

Post # 4
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5977 posts
Bee Keeper

@raisedonrobbery:  Given their history, I would say no like you. The fact that she had a crush on him and kissed him would be the part that I wouldn’t like. If it was someone who he was only friends with and nothing happened ever between them, then I wouldn’t be as worried. 

Post # 6
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1130 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would be uncomfortable regardless, but given the circumstances, I would definitely not be okay with that.

Post # 8
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3625 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

No, I don’t feel comfortable with Fiance staying with a female friend (unless she was like a 75 year old grandma of 20). The fact that she used to like him makes it even worse. The fact that it is after a party just cements it.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

No, that would just be weird and overstepping boundaries since she did have a crush and they did kiss. Who knows if she still does so might as well not travel down that road. Glad he considered your feelings when you spoke to him about it. 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

NO!! I would not be comfortable at all with this!!!!

 

@lilbluebird:  No, I don’t feel comfortable with Fiance staying with a female friend (unless she was like a 75 year old grandma of 20).

Hahahaha!! I laughed soo hard at this!!!

 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Noooo! Never, ever acceptable! No way, no how, nobody sees the wizard!

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Definitely not. 

Not even a question about how long they have known each other or who had a crush on who.  I just wouldn’t want him in the situation where later on he is trying to explain why something happened but he didn’t want it to and blah blah blah.  I am a super jealous person so I couldn’t handle any of it.  My guy would definitely have to come on home. 

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

Yes I would be ok with it. I trust my Darling Husband completely and know he wouldn’t do anything that would cross the line.  

And if he did do something, then it would mean he’s an idiot and then it’s certainly his loss.  A man who is going to cheat is going to do it regardless of whatever he is forbiden from doing.  And a man that won’t cheat is not going to all of a sudden cheat becuase he’s sleeping in the same house as another woman.  

 

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

That is definitely not ok!

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