(Closed) Would you be upset?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i think i’d just be amused.  your wedding was first, so her actions will be pretty transparent to all the family and mutual guests.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Sorry you’re upset, I can see why this would be irritating.  But you need to get over this, and fast.  Holding negative feelings about this won’t do any good what so ever.   Your wedding was yours, hers was hers, and you’re married now.  Don’t give this so much energy – enjoy your marriage!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

You did it first, you did it better! Be proud of your wedding! And it sounds like everyone already knows it, which is even better! She’s transparent!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

It would have made me angry too! I wouldn’t be upset with your brothers and dad though cause they probably didn’t know any better, but seriously, this whole thing would have pissed me off!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is just strange.  I would be a bit upset too.  But.. try to let it go.  I’m sure I’m not the only one who thinks it’s odd… relatives who attended both of your weddings probably thought it was weird too and nowhere near as sentimental and special as it was at your wedding.

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper

Did she ask your parents to do all of that? Or did they volunteer? And did she thank them and appreciate this extra effort? Cause from what you say about her she sounds like an entitled bitch.

Personally I’d be more upset about how she’s treated you directly. You can’t get upset about the march, cause frankly its not like you created that kind of processional, its been done before. Like a PP said, your  other family members  probably already thought it was a transparent and weird copycat off of yours. Let it go.

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