(Closed) would you be upset?

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

No.

But it is your property, he really shouldn’t be messing with it.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

No.

I would only be worried if they are the type to try and wreck your things. Otherwise, I wouldn’t worry (even though they are being rude).

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I might be a bit annoyed, but not much. 

When she posted on FB did she make any comments about overpriced etc. ? I think you may be judging them on it when they didn’t mean it that way. It could have been that she was curious and he let her and he didn’t announce, “You have to see Pokemon’s dresses, they’re rediculously overpriced”

Without knowing how it happened I’d just let it go, you’ll be in your place soon so it wont happen again 🙂

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would be FURIOUS! I also REALLY dislike Future Father-In-Law, and I would be SO angry if he even TOUCHED my dress, let alone showed it to people!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I would be upset. He doesn’t have a right to show anybody anything. He shouldn’t have done that.

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would be upset. I found out my mom (who I do get along with) was showing people my dress. I wanted it to be a surprise to everyone but now most of my family already knows what it looks like.

 

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Pokemon:  I would be really pissed. The only people that get to see my dress before the wedding is my mom, FI’s mom, and my bridesmaids. I want to keep it a suprise from everyone else, so I def would be ticked.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

To be honest, I’m pretty open with my dress and have shown photos to most people that have asked. But I would be pretty annoyed if someone showed someone else my dress without permission. It would be like someone else showing someone my house – it’s personal property and it belongs to me. If you want to see it, you just ask and I’ll usually be more than happy to show it to you.

In this case, I don’t think there’s much you can do other than say something like “I thought wedding dresses were supposed to be secret! I haven’t even shown it to XYZ!”

Still, congratulations on your settlement tomorrow! Ours isn’t until July and I’m already impatient!

Post # 12
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Busy bee

I’d be upset, but it would also depend on the circumstances. like how open you’ve been in showing other ppl your dress – maybe Future Father-In-Law thought it wasnt anything to hide? but if he was showing it in a money waster snarky way, then YEAH id be pissed

 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would be upset! He has no right to be going through your stuff! I would have kept quiet but would have been secretly pissed.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Sorry but I would be fecking furious.  Who do they think they are?  It’s bad enough to go snooping through your things let alone posting about it on FB – especially if you’re keeping your dress a secret from Fiance and the majority of your guests.  That’s disgraceful behaviour and I’d call them on it.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee

Yes, if it’s to be snarky! No, if it was a “ohhh, look how pretty!” peek. She shouldn’t have posted on FB too.

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