(Closed) would you be upset?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 17
3371 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I would be super furious. What did she say about your dress? I hope it was something nice at least.

I would be angry if Future Father-In-Law went through any of my stuff to show other people, regardless of whether it was my wedding dress or not. 

Post # 18
1069 posts
Bumble bee

Hmm, hard to say!


If this was my ex and his family then yes, I would be beyond pissed!! However, we couldn’t stand each other and one of his sisters and his mom were always trying to get under my skin. If it was my current SO and his family I wouldn’t be mad at all because they’re all awesome!


I definitely see why you are upset though, it’s your property and they had no right to go near it.

Post # 19
170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I completely understand how you feel! I know I shouldn’t be but I am annoyed and a little upset that my FI’s grandmother and uncle (whose daughter happens to be getting married) went to our VENUE to “check it out” because they were “in the area.” I, too, felt they were checking it out to be snarky, not to tell us how great it is. Further, I don’t even really know either of them so it’s totally weird to me.

At the end of the day, I guess we just have to let it go and remember that it’s still OUR day, not theirs.

Post # 20
1397 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Pokemon:  This is annoying, but mostly I’m laughing at “cracking a tanty.” 🙂

Post # 21
388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would be furious! EVERYONE knows no one sees the dress!! Shameful

Post # 22
2948 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 1998

I’d be annoyed to.

I find that really disrespectful. How dare they go through your things. 

Post # 23
2375 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’d be furious.  Not because someone saw my dress, but because people were rummaging through my propery without my permission!  I mean, you don’t go to someone’s house and start poking through their closet and their dresser.  I’d make sure there was nothing private stored there. 

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