Would you be upset about this?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should I believe him?
    yes : (60 votes)
    27 %
    no : (163 votes)
    73 %
  • Post # 3
    2808 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    has he given you any previous indication that you can’t trust him?

    how long have you been together?

    Post # 4
    8446 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @daisylover:  What’s Tinder?

    Post # 5
    5956 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    @daisylover:  There’s just not enough information at this point….if he’s really just goofing around, and hey, I’ve totally done that just to see what the deal is because a single friend was too scared…ask him for the password to it and see what you can find out…people who have nothing to hide…hide nothing.

    Post # 6
    4495 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’ve never heard of Tinder… what is it?

    Post # 8
    434 posts
    Helper bee

    It sounds legit to me. He was with his friend in his apartment with you also there. If there are no other indications of sketchiness, then I think he’s telling the truth. I understand feeling weird about it, but it sounds like he was actually just with his friend being drunk and curious about the app.

    Post # 9
    249 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I’m skeptical- if they were so curious why didnt your SO’s friend make the Tinder account instead of your SO? 

    Post # 11
    214 posts
    Helper bee

    @BeeLoveHeart:  My thoughts exactly.

    @daisylover:  I think this is something you need to discuss more with him before jumping to any conclusions but I would be suspicious for sure. I’ve never used Tinder before, is there any way to tell how long ago he created it?

    Post # 12
    1152 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    It’s pretty much only for hook ups…less of a “dating” app/site and more of a “one night stand” kind of app/site.

    Post # 13
    7211 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @Nona99:  +1

    @daisylover:  I’d ask him to show me his profile/give me his password. Try not to be angry and stuff when you say it, just let him know that it’s been urking you all day and you’d just like the reassurance. It’s very likely that his story is true but if it isn’t he will start gaslighting you and/or being defensive. 

    Post # 14
    8446 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @daisylover:  That sounds fishy, since there’s really no reason for him to be curious about how it works.  Even if he was, I would think that he would tell you on his own, rather than having to be confronted by you.

    Post # 16
    1507 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    @daisylover:  Please either change your title of the post, or your question in the poll. When your title and poll are different, it really throws lots of Bees off, since we tend to answer the Title question, without reading the Poll question, then answer wrong. Just trying to help solve confusion!

    As for the situation, I would just definitely keep my eyes open. Without much more information on his character, I can’t really give you much insight.

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