(Closed) Would you be upset if you didn't have your e-ring at your shower?

posted 4 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
96 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

If you want to pay out of pocket many places will do it in store and you get it back the same day.  I think it usually costs around $30. 

Post # 4
516 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I don’t think I’d feel weird since you’d have a reason for not having it….but that’s just me. We ordered mine in October or November and mine won’t be here for another 3 weeks still, so I’ve been without one forever now!!! 🙁

Post # 5
678 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@BriansBride:  It might just need to be buffed. I thought my ring needed to be redipped and the jeweler looked at me like I was nuts, took it in the back and buffed it, and brought it back white and shiny like new! And that was free 🙂

Post # 6
3736 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@BriansBride:  Will people want to take pictures of it? Based on the showers I’ve been to, no. However, I do think they’ll want to check out your bling and compliment you and your FI.

Post # 7
561 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

This wouldn’t really bother me, but I’d probably look for a quicker place.  I’ve got jewelry dipped in under a week.

Post # 8
1157 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@BriansBride:  I know exactly what you mean – I didn’t have mine for our engagement party because I had broken it haha!  It totally feels weird, I get it.

Pay to get it done at a local jeweler, would be my suggestion!

Post # 9
7656 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@BriansBride:  As a bride, it would have been a big deal to me, but now that I am married and look back on my bridal shower, no. No one took any pics or it or really even asked/cared to see it because mostly everyone there had already seen it, and if they hadn’t they would see it at the wedding 🙂

Post # 10
1328 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

At showers people sometimes ask to see the ring if they haven’t yet, but its not a big deal.  If anyone asks just tell them the truth, it’s hardly uncommon for a ring to be at the jewler getting cleaned, resized, fixed, etc.

Post # 11
2903 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Yes, I think I would feel weird about not having it! I agree with previous posters on paying a little extra and getting it done locally.

Post # 12
1214 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

@BriansBride:  I would look elsewhere.  I just had mine redipped and it took 2 days.  All those chain stores do that.  Go to a privately owned jewelry store.

Post # 13
1603 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@BriansBride:  I’d have a local jeweler who can do it in a day do it, at least this once. I don’t think it’s a big deal, but I think I’d want to have my ring for my shower. Every shower I’ve been to someone has asked to see the ring, or it has been talked about. Especially for people who haven’t seen it yet! The picture thing is less of a worry.

Post # 14
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@BriansBride:  No it;s not a big deal at all.

Why would anyone be taking pictures of your ring?  If they ask to see it, just say it’s getting replated.

Post # 15
793 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I had my bridal shower this past weekend and literally only one person even asked to see my ring. I wouldn’t worry too much about it! 

Post # 16
315 posts
Helper bee

I agree with PPs; go to a local jeweler and they should be able to help you much quicker.

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