(Closed) Would You Be Willing to Move/Live Internationally?

posted 10 years ago in Home
  • poll: If given the opportunity ... would you be willing to relocate and live internationally with your SO?

    Yes - I'd move anywhere in the world and never look back.

    No - I wouldn't be willing to live internationally away from my family and friends.

    Yes - My SO is not from the same country I am and I plan to relocate to be with him.

    Yes - But only for a short period of time with a known end date.

    Other - explain below

  • Post # 62
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    2820 posts
    Sugar bee

    We’ve talked about doing this in the future.  It depends on the country though.

    Post # 63
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I am just itching to move if Fiance gets transfered. He may have a chance to go to Germany. Or even anywhere else too for that matter as his is also an International Corporation. So I’m all packed up n’ ready! Tongue out

    I really want to have kids soon after we get married so it’d be great if we can live somewhere where I don’t have to work and we can easily survive on his one income. That way I can raise the kids at home until they are big enough to take care of themselves and meanwhile take some distant courses and what not and keep my education at its peak. Then start working. At least it will take away a LOT of the parental stress we all go through here in N.A.

    Post # 64
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I did.  I moved from Germany to the US after I graduated from university.  It wasn’t always easy, but I would not want to miss this experience for anything in the world.  Best thing I have ever done!

    Post # 65
    Bee
    72 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2011 - Ravenswood Billboard Factory

    We met abroad so we are always talking about moving internationally. Right now the plan is late 2012 or early 2013!

    Post # 66
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Wow, I’m surprised how many people answered yes! I guess I’m in the minority. I love to travel, but I don’t think I could actually move to another country, and be that far away from family & friends.

    Post # 67
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    699 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I’d definitely consider it because I’d want to be supportive of him and his career (he is planning to move to NY for me, so how could I say no straight out?), but having worked overseas for six years, I do feel a bit “been there done that” about the whole thing. It would really depend on the country and the package.

    Post # 68
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    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    My Fiance is from canada and I’m from the US. I am super excited to move to Canada one day!! now it just boils down to Vancouver vs Toronto? that’s a tough choice!

    Post # 69
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    5373 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I think it’s a really fun concept but I’m too much of a homebody haha, I’d rather just travel a lot (:

    Post # 70
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    1227 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I think this needs a poll option for “yes, depending on the place.” Italy? Oh hell yeah. Africa? Probably not. To me a lot depends on the place we’d be living.

    Post # 71
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    7774 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    YEP! I would and I am. As many of you know, I am moving to England in July because DH got transferred there (military). I am STOKED. I have always wanted to travel and live other places. I am excited to get away from the US and all of our bullshit for a while (Im sure Im trading it for other bullshit, but whatever… at least it’s a change of scenery.)

    GAHH!!! Can it be July right now? Im ready to gooooo.

    Post # 72
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I would be willing to ONLY if it were for a short period of time and wouldn’t hurt my career. We would have to weigh the benefits.

    Post # 73
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    54 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I would go anywhere with him! I’d go almost anywhere on my own too and have. Get out there! You can keep in contact with friends and family without being in the same town/country. I think it’s worth it and while not always easy makes your stronger and more open. (well hopefully;) I’ll be moving with my fiance to Australia in two months. Our third country together in two years.

    Post # 74
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I’ve been living overseas for the past 5 years! And most recently, my fiancee followed me to RUSSIA. That’s love.

    It was the best opportunity for my career, and he has supported me every step of the way. Even though Russia was never on our “wish list” of places to be. But it’s all what you make of it. We are together, and that makes everything okay. And it’s fun to explore and discover new parts of the world together!

    The worst thing you can do, in my opinion, is say “no” to an international opportunity. Say yes, and keep in mind that you’re only a plane ride away from home and nothing ever has to be permanent!

    Post # 75
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    1302 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    It depends on the circumstances and the country.  Some countries — Saudi Arabia is the first that comes to mind — would be a definite no.  Some countries would be ok for a short stint only.  There are some countries I might consider on a more open-ended basis.

    My husband would have to make a LOT more money to make up for my salary hit though.

    Post # 76
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    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I love traveling, have loved living abroad, and am infinitely curious- I would do this in a heartbeat!

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