(Closed) Would you bees invite this person to your wedding? opinions greatly appreciated

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would you invite this woman to your wedding?
    No : (20 votes)
    61 %
    Yes : (2 votes)
    6 %
    Who care's invite this woman anyway and show her her tricks aren't working and your as happy as ever : (2 votes)
    6 %
    It's not up to you let FI decide. : (9 votes)
    27 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    134 posts
    Blushing bee

    Fiance, why would I want to invite a woman to our wedding who’s already tried to drive a wedge between us and cause problems for me with your family?

    And FWIW, your Fiance is the one who needs to step up and tell this busybody to knock it off.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1810 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I would simply tell Fiance that “I’m sorry but I just dont feel comfortable with having this person at the wedding. I have a feeling that she will be making be feel anxious the entire time and that is the last thing I need when I’m vowing my love to you.” My husband and I had a similar situation when planning our wedding and I just told him that I really didn’t want this person to be there and he was like “ok.” LoL

    Post # 5
    Member
    3081 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @Zanne54:  Agree!

    This is something I would think you should easily be able to bring up to Fiance. He might have a different perspective on her, but it’s something you should communicate on. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    11272 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    talk to your fi about this.  have him talk to his mom about not inviting her.  it will be like his decision to not invite this woman.

    your fi wouldn’t want you to be uncomfortable on your wedding day, would he?

    Post # 9
    Member
    11272 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @MrsDPal811:  sorry about that.  that sucks.  why do people have to get so disrepectful about the bride and groom’s wishes?  i’d tell your fmil that you’ll miss her at the wedding.

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