(Closed) Would you call someone out on their stone?

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 92
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4424 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

No, I wouldn’t. I just think it would be rude and there are so many reasons they may make the claim it is real. Not my place no matter who it is. To be honest, I’m not sure I could just eyeball something and know right away it wasn’t real. I don’t tend to pay that much attention.

Post # 93
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6354 posts
Bee Keeper

If someone is lying to me I am likely to tell them I know and ask them why.

Post # 94
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555 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2020

No, I think it would be rude to do so.

Post # 95
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240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I would absolutely not say a thing. It’s called having good manners. My mother would slap me!

It might be fun to imagine in your head something cutting to say to someone like that, but I bet once it was out of your mouth you’d feel awful. You’d be the bitch, not her. Maybe she is super insecure and has some stuff going on you don’t know about?

 

Post # 96
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3025 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

No. First of all I don’t know jack about stones. Also, no one I know cares about or talks about their rings. So anyone who was doing that would be a stranger. And I would have walked away from the conversation after the first sentence, most likely.

Post # 97
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3118 posts
Sugar bee

No I’m too polite.  

Post # 98
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739 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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@Aquaria:  So…who cares if her stone is lab created? It sounds like you are miserable with your life and want to knock people down around you. 

Post # 99
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6516 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Aquaria:  rolling your eye is not polite

I would not call someone out on their stone. Its none of my business.

I know a girl who thinks her ring is a diamond and its not, but I would never say anything bc that would be extremly hurtful

Post # 100
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9211 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I think it depends on the situation. If someone truly believed their ring was something it wasn’t then I might ask them if they have had it checked. There are a lot of dodgy jewellery stores out there especially online.

If it was someone who was just being an arse then I would just ignore them but reevaluate my friendship with them. You don’t lie to people you care about so if you lie to me then it makes me think you don’t care very much.

But then again I don’t respect people who feel like they need to keep up with the Jones or who are materialistic.

Post # 101
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609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

No. Never. I find that it’s not my business to do that. 

Post # 102
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2065 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

If I was 100% sure I’d just smile and say “Awesome.” Or something and leave it at that.  Then question anything and everything that person ever says. 

Post # 103
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273 posts
Helper bee

No. There is literally nothing kind or helpful to be achieved by pointing it out. Why would you deliberately seek to publicly hurt or embarrass someone else, however much you disliked them?

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