(Closed) Would you care if an acquaintance did this to your husband…..

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you care?
    Yes : (98 votes)
    52 %
    No : (78 votes)
    41 %
    Other : (13 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    2512 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Hmm… standing back crack… I wouldn’t mind.

    Straddling my man? Someone’s about to get knocked out. Smile

    Post # 6
    407 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    As I read this I thought, meh… no big deal, ’cause a good back crack feels amazing. Then I considered this happening to my husband without me around, and lets just say my tune changed. Women can keep their paws off my husband. (Disclaimer: I’m also pregnant… so that could have a little something to do with it)

    Post # 8
    825 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I don’t think I would care, although massage therapy is my hobby so I go around giving anyone who wants one a massage….cracking someones back is not a “sexy” thing….not sure why she had to straddle him though.

    Post # 9
    1553 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I wouldn’t like it.  At all.  But then, my husband wouldn’t allow it, so I don’t have to worry about that.

    To me (and fortunately, he feels the same way), touching is very intimate.  I don’t like to be touched by just anyone.  I’m ok with hugs and a kiss on the cheek, mostly because I realize that that is how most people show affection.  I’d have no problem if my husband ran into a friend and she gave him a hug or kissed his cheek.

    But to straddle him and crack his back?  Unless she is a licesnsed professional… HELL no. 

    Post # 10
    348 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    completely agree with @tranquility but just to play devils advocate here… it’s just a back crack… it’s not something sexual. she isn’t naked (i don’t think – unless this is a naked softball team, hahaa!) she isn’t doing it to turn him on…  she’s doing it because his back is sore. howcome this is so out of the question for so many of us?

    Post # 11
    1486 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I don’t think that I would care… but it isn’t hard for me to understand why some people wouldn’t like it much. 

    Post # 12
    2260 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Hmm generally I wouldn’t care (granted I sometimes crack backs for people too) but I would never do it for just an acquaintance and I doubt I would be happy for another woman to do that to my guy while I was preggers.

    Post # 13
    661 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I honestly would be fine with it.  It’s not like she was laying on top of him. 

    Post # 15
    40 posts

    I agree with @tranquility:. Also, I think of how my SO might feel if he walked up and saw that happening. I would never want to cause even a shred of those icky feelings to creep up between us. I wouldn’t like hearing about it happening w/ my man, and I wouldn’t want him to have to hear about that happening with me.

    Post # 16
    4755 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    well that is what a back crack is…

    I voted other. Yes, I would have feelings about it, probably a little jealousy but it wasn’t a romantic massage, it was back cracking.

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