(Closed) Would you care if your SO went here for lunch? Possibly NSFW

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
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  • Post # 58
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    no i don’t care if he goes occasionally with friends or coworkers or whatever. but if he was like a regular there and knew all the girls by name, i’d be concerend. i just find that disrespectful to me. 

    Post # 59
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Honestly, it seems just like Hooters.

    Post # 60
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

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    @MrsSaltWaterTaffy: I just texted DH and asked him how it was.  He said pretty much just like hooters, but with much better food. 

    My poor, dumb husband….I said “What about the outfits?” and he said “What? I don’t remember what I wore.”  LOL.  He’s not very bright, LOL.

    Post # 62
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

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    @Cash000: Right.  But then again, when he is in season, he eats 2 meals a day out in a restaurant, so he probably has no idea!

    Post # 63
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    @cbee : “I find those places degrading to women, so I wouldn’t be married to someone who supports that sort of establishment.” Exactly this.

    Sorry but I can’t respect people who use sexual titillation as a means to make money, any establishment who promotes this kind of service or any non-single grown up man who frequents them; and I certainly wouldn’t be married to someone I don’t respect. It has nothing to do with jealousy or insecurity. It’s just my values.

    Post # 64
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I voted that I don’t care but then I looked through the photos… one of the girls is holding a shoe like she’s talking on the phone! LOL 

    A SHOE! I don’t get what the point of it is. 

    Post # 65
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    Bumble bee

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    @meliss: 100% agreed!

    Post # 66
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

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    @meliss: YES!

    Post # 67
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

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    @meliss: Exactly.

    I understand that others feel comfortable with it, and that is 100% okay. It’s just not my cup of tea, and I wouldn’t be marrying someone who didn’t feel the same way. The implications of jealousy get really tired.

    Post # 68
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Wouldn’t care at all.

    Post # 69
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    Buzzing bee

    Wouldn’t care at all. Complete non-issue. It’s not like he’s going to have sex in the bathroom with his waitress; he’s going to eat some greasy food and look at a few pretty girls. I see no difference between that and me and my girlfriends going to see the newest Gerard Butler movie just he’s half-naked half the time. Yes, he’s looking at real girls and we are looking at celebrities, but it’s all the same to me.

    The girls I know personally in my own life that don’t want their men going to places like this: they are extremely insecure and have trust issues. They are convinced their men will cheat on them in some way shape or form and are very paranoid about him doing anything remotely related to sexily-dressed women. 

    The women on here who care: I’m not saying the above scenario is you. So don’t get all worked up over it. That is directly related to the girls I know IRL, not a sweeping generalization of all women who care.

    Post # 70
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    Newbee

    No, I wouldn’t have a problem…it looks like an Irish Hooters.

    Post # 71
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Wouldn’t bother me at all. I agree with a PP when they said you go to a beach don’t you? Guys will look at other girls…who cares? Its a restaurant!

    Post # 72
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Women are everywhere! I’m not about to get my panties in a bunch over a chick with a push up bra busting her ass serving to make a living… honestly, good for her. He’s not a little kid who needs to be shielded from seeing hot girls. I can’t control that, so why bother? If he doesn’t check them out at a restaurant he’ll do it somewhere else. Window shopping – I do it too. Reality check: you’re not the only woman he will ever check out or be attracted to. Sorry, tough break, I’m sure.

    ETA: Also, on the flipside of what some of you have said, I am absolutely shocked by the number of women who would care about this.

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