Post # 76
i dont think i can go through the newborn stage of life multiple times, once was enough….. However once i made it to the 3 month mark i uttered words i have never spoke before on wishing i could have another and have a baby girl (we have a baby boy)…..
with that said if time and money werent an issue i might have 3.
obviously i cant control mother nature, i wouldnt be upset either if we ended up with two boys. But i think we are done. D.h is almost 40 and wants to be completely done with the having kids thing by that number. So we got like two years to decide and try for another if we really want a 2nd.
Post # 77
EllyAnne : If money were no issue Id have tons of kids! I love being pregnant and babies and being a mom.
However money and time are issues. We will be TTC for a baby this fall and Im both excited and terrified lol
Post # 78
LilliV : To clarify, I’m considering “lots of kids” to be more say, more than 5. So let’s say each one has 1 extracurricular. It’s still hard to manage. It’s not unrealistic to assume each child will have one activity they want to be involved in.
Post # 79
If we had infinite money and could adopt, then it would be amazingly fun. Being pregnant/post-partum/nursing with multiple toddlers and little kids running around sounds overwhelming. “Touched out” wouldn’t even begin to describe that feeling.