(Closed) Would you consider this a hint???!!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I guess it does? I would have thought he’d get upset at you even proposing an ultimatum, even a long-term one lol But I guess he knows your tone of voice and that you don’t really mean it. In which case, yes! To me it sounds like a major hint lol Yay!!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

Hmm.  I’m not sure, he could have been playing right back at you.  Then again, he could be throwing you off his scent.  The surprise factor is kinda lost after 9 years (we’re at 8 and it’s definitely gone, but he’s still trying to do it).  Maybe he wants you to THINK you have to wait until December?

 

Regardless, I’d say you’re in the home stretch if you guys have been looking at rings for so long!  Good luck and keep us posted!!!!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee

Oh man!  Don’t even get me started.  Whenever the engagement conversation comes up, my SO acts like he doesn’t even know what the word “engagement” means.  He’s all “what?! we’re talking about what now?!!?”.  

 

One time I was talking to my SO and sister about a crazy friend of mine (long story short, she basically has my entire wedding planned out and is more impatient than me) and my SO was all “WHat?!?!  us? no way”.

 

I’m like nice try buddy.  I know you have a ring.  Bah!!!  It’s sweet in a way, but I’m getting a wee bit tired. 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee

Haha!  Yep, we started dating when we were in high school.  He’s 24, I’ll be 23 in a couple weeks.  Definitely the same boat.   πŸ˜€   It’s nice to know I’m not alone!

 

And my goodness!! That’s quite a long time to be apart!  We went to different colleges and I studied abroad in Spain for 5 months, so I understand the whole long distance thing.  It’s pretty lame, but does have its benefits.  At least you can focus more on yourself for a bit πŸ™‚  

 

We’ve been living together for a year and a couple months.  Seems like we’re kinda stuck in a limbo land and I hate it! 

Post # 10
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Blushing bee

I could definitely see a surprise in there at some point πŸ™‚  

 

But wow, sounds like you’re going to miss some monumental days.  Those could also be surpise opportunities too!  

 

That really does suck.  I don’t envy you there.  πŸ™  Hopefully it flies by!!!  And hopefully there WILL be some wedding planning to do during the 5 months.  When does he leave again?  How far will he be? Can you drive?

 

And I LOVE sapphires!!!!!!  I’m a white sapphire girl — thought about getting one for the e-ring, but apparently he already has one.  He told me not to expect to get one though?  Weird. 

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