(Closed) Would You Consider This Insulting To A Photographer?

posted 4 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Insulting? no.  But some photographers might mentally label you as ‘a potential problem client’.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Just remeber, this is their profession, and their “baby”.. If you are going to say something, do it very nicely as you dont know how people will take what you say.. And as stated, may end up with you being labelled a ‘problem client’

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@petalpetal:  That sounds good:) Compliment, compliment, compliment:) 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Beach

That sound great just put along a few more compliments so that he doesn’t get offended or anything but your wording sounds good 🙂 good luck

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@petalpetal:  I would really not advise doing that. I would personally choose not to work with you because I want to work with couples who want what I produce, and I would not be receptive to someone asking me to shoot and edit like a different photographer. In the example provided, you’d be asking him to shoot overexposed and edit his color balance from cool to warm which does not appear to be his style based on the two photos you shared. Why not just hire the people who take the photos you actually like? 

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would find a photographer that fits the style you want.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@mariematt:  +100

Sorry OP – what you’re asking is kind of like going to a baker and saying I like the icing you make, but I want you to use this recipe for your cake. Or asking a chef to change the way he cooks. I’ve found that these professionals have their way of doing things – as they should – and it’s difficult/near impossible to get them to change.

I would suggest you keep on looking for someone who fits your style. Most likely this photographer will chose not to work with you, since the impression will be that you will be “difficult”.

Good luck!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

@mariematt:  I just have to t/j a bit, but am trying to learn.  When you say cool color balance is that because … as I see it, in the top picture has more bluish undertones to the tile and floor and in the bottom her white dress has the same bluish undertones? 

Is color balance just a subjective preference?  Do you try to keep color balance the same througout the whole shoot or do you alter it picture by picture to try for different ‘feels’ in different settings… ceremony different from outside garden pictures, different from indoor dance floor setting?  Or color balance stays the same and exposure, depth of field/focus change to alter the mood?

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Yeah… kinda insulting. I’d go with a photographer that you don’t feel like you need to micromanage (I don’t mean that in a snarky way, the photos are THE biggest deal for me at my wedding).

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Stevens Estate

I know nothing about photography so I could be way off here…but what if instead of putting it like your asking him to change his editing style, you just ask him if he can make the pictures look the way you want. I mean I’m sure he deals with a lot of different people who like things in different ways. Give him your vision of how you picture your wedding photos to look. I think that wouldn’t be rude at all …you are paying for a service might as well get what you want. And if he cannot do it I’m sure he will tell you.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would just find a photographer who already has the style you’re looking for.  You’re pretty much running the risk you won’t like your photos otherwise.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

No, you are a client and have concerns. Express it that way with examples of work that you like. If he comes back with I am the professional and I know best. Move on. 

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m afraid that if you made those suggestions to me then I would politely decline to cover your wedding. Not because I think you are unreasonable but because I would think you had picked the wrong photographer. Therefore I would invite you to choose a photographer whose style suited your expectations.

Incidentally, it is also important to distinguish between the type of photographs you want and the style that they are presented in. I have no issue with anyone suggesting that there are certain “must-have” pictures and giving me a heads-up as to which these are. I do have an issue with anyone inviting me to shoot them in the style of a quite different photographer.

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