- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
If my Fiance becomes a hoarder, it’s my fault for being an enabler. Hoarder who have families usually get that way because the families allow it.
My grandfather was a hoarder and had an entire basement full of stuff. My grandmother never allowed him to bring it upstairs but it was sitting there in the basement, getting bigger and bigger and bigger. Because of that, my mother is the Garbage Day Queen. She taught us that if it’s not being used now, don’t hold on to it. There’s no point. De-clutter life because more can happen making memories than gripping to items that have hints of the past on them.