(Closed) Would you dump your SO if he wore these shoes?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 92
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Worker bee

Seriously?

I have many pairs of expensive shoes that I’m sure my SO doesn’t “get” but he’s never said a word because he’s not rude and because it’s my money. I wear Chanel captoe flats almost every day and they are definitely not his style (he’s a Vans man), but he’d never, ever act like that. I would never date someone who was rude to me over my choice of clothing or footwear.

Post # 93
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I do find those shoes/slippers? to be ridiculous, but no, I would not dump my fiancé or be upset with him over a pair of shoes.

Post # 94
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Try to see it this way. You are planning a wedding and most of the things are your vision right? So he should have something that is of his own vision and respect it because it is about compromise. You may not like the shoes but it makes him happy. How many things does he do to make you happy? During dating, engagement, and marriage there will be plenty of things that you dont like and vice versa but we learn to accept and compromise for the relationship. Every man needs is own individuality outside of what you think he should do so let it go. Obviously, you guys can afford it so let him indulge on himself.Smile

Post # 95
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

LOL is all I can say

Post # 96
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

They’re just shoes. I’m shocked that it’s enough to warrant slamming a door in his face and putting your relationship in jeopardy.

Post # 97
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would be more upset by the fact that he spent $500 on them than that the shoes are ugly.  My Fiance can wear whatever he wants, but if he’s gonna shell out money like that, he needs to talk to me about it first.

Post # 98
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think he should dump you for how you are being about the whole situation. If he likes them he likes them. I’m sure he dosen’t like everything you wear….

Post # 99
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Style wise, they wouldn’t bother me a bit. But cost wise, I would be a bit perturbed.

Post # 100
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I think they are funny!! Kind of an expensive joke, but still funny.

Post # 101
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Wow, you must have serious relationship problems if those shoes send you over the top.

Post # 102
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Are you pmsInge or something ? 

Post # 103
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Blushing bee

LOL… I actually like them! Smoking slippers are a big trend this season for men AND women Wink Honestly though I wish my bf was brave enough to make some crazy fashion statements, I think it speaks highly to your SO’s self confidence.

Post # 105
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think it’s awesome that he’s got the balls to wear them!!  lol  Made me smile.  “Yeah, I’ve got a man twirling an umbrella on my feet- and what?”  I would have an issue with spending $500 on shoes.  Buuuut, it is his money.  If you were sharing expenses and he chose pimp shoes over paying his share, then you might have an issue.  If you don’t agree with how he spends money, then maybe you’ve got some some insight into whether you want to combine your income. 

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