(Closed) Would you have your shower in a restaurant?

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: What to do?

    Couples shower in restaurant

    Bridal Shower in restaurant

    Talk to her about not having it in a restaurant

  • Post # 3
    2997 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    most of the showers I have been to have been at a restaurant.  I think games are lame but you can still play some.  Let her throw you the shower at the restaurant, it will be elegant and fun! I would stick with all women because showers are usually dreadful for men!  Sorry about your momma 🙁


    Post # 4
    1966 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I’ve been to a ton of showers at restaurants in private rooms.  Always really nice. Sorry to hear about your mom. ♥

    Post # 6
    9478 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    make sure it is a private room so you can be loud and not distrub other guests.

    Post # 7
    9129 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

    I must not be totally awake because I read the title of this post as “Would you take a shower in a restaurant?”

    Post # 8
    1548 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    All of the showers I’ve been to have been in private rooms at restaurants. They are always very elegant. I don’t think you should have a couples shower, I don’t know a single man that would enjoy it!

    Sorry to hear about you mom.

    Post # 10
    6261 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    It doesn’t have to be a large restaurant at peak dinner service time. Mine is in a small restaurant. If you go for a small one, you can probably just take up the whole space and do what you want.

    Post # 11
    2997 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

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    @DarthBetty:  Restaurants ususally have little (or big) private areas for events like this.  Especially italian restaurants.  And OH, I didn’t know that you were talking about just your Fiance going….that is totally okay.  Lots of Fiance go to open presents or make an appearance at the end to say thank you.  It’s the other male guests that always get bored.  If your Fiance wants to be there, he should be there especially since his Mother-In-Law is the one throwing it!

    Post # 13
    722 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    FI’s cousin had her bridal shower that was thrown for her at a restaurant and it was actually quite nice! and it was easier on the hosts without needed to buy/prepare/set up/clean up all kinds of food & drinks

    Post # 15
    3570 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I’ve been to over a dozen showers in restaurants.  I thought that’s where they usually are!

    You are usually in a private room, or separated from regular diners.

    Post # 16
    2178 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    the shower my Future Mother-In-Law is throwing me is in a restaurant – thats pretty common around here since not everyone wants to host in their homes. Its actually so much nicer and easier…. you don’t have to do much but pick out the menu and get some flowers (or other centerpieces) the restaraunt does all the cooking, cleaning, serving etc!


    usually its more of a social event (chatting and catching up…and of course the present opening!) than alot of game but I have definitely seen people do the guess who said this (bride v groom) or who knows the bride best etc type games but nothing too messy like making the toilet paper “gown”

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