(Closed) Would you let your SO…

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wait what? Does he strip? Why would she choose him?

And to answer your question, not a chance in hell.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@amallama:  Um, this is a big no. How would your fiancé feel if one of his buddies wanted you to strip down at a bachelor party? Absolutely not. This girl must be crazy to think you’d consider it and there’s no way my Fiance would be doing this. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

That seems like an absolutely bizarre requet to me but no… FH is not taking his clothes off for ANYONE but me.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

That is just… so very wierd :/

 

How does your SO feel about it?

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

No f’ing way

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

Uh, is that what he does for a living?  I’m just confused as to why she would think of him as being a stripper for her.  IMO, that’s weird, and if he were my Fiance (even if that were his job), I would tell him that it’s inappropriate.  

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m not sure why your SO would even entertain the idea. Maybe she was just teasing her Fiance saying she wanted to hire his friends? Either way, absolutely not, maybe if she was my friend I’d tell my SO he could come do a little dance down to his undies for a laugh but no chance in hell he would be taking his clothes off to a girl whos a stranger to me.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Ummm wow! I would be livid if one of my friends planned on doing that! Heck no!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wow…just…wow.  I’m going to assume from your reaction that your SO is not a professional stripper on the side.  I’m going to hope this was a joke or a comment made under panicked stress.  And that’s exactly how he should treat it.  Laugh it off and make a comment of how ridiculous the idea is.  If she wasn’t being serious, she’ll laugh with him, if she was serious, she’ll hopefully get the hint.  If she doesn’t back down, he needs to tell her that her suggestion is unacceptable.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Hell no. 

And I’ll tell you something else. 

If one of my husband’s friends asked if I could be a stripper at a bachelor party, Darling Husband would promptly punch him in the face. 

I see no reason why it would be any more acceptable the other way around. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Oh my. At first I read the subject line and thought it was strange asking about “letting” your SO (a grown-up) do something. But then I read what he was being asked to do… lol.

Does HE want to do it!? It sounds so strange. Is he going to just pretend to strip, or actually strip? Wouldn’t he be uncomfortable doing it? I have a MILLION questions!!!

I would put it back on him like one PP mentioned – what would he say if YOU were asked to do the same thing!??

So bizarre. Why would someone even think this was a good idea? And surely HER Fiance thinks this is ridiculous and a terrible idea, too!? You must be wondering how this is possibly your real life right about now…

ETA: Forgot to mention, NOOOOOOO I would not be okay with my Fiance doing something like this. Thankfully he would never be okay with it, either. And I’m fairly certain no one would ever ask him to do this. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Wait…You’re joking right? 

Not only would my Fiance NOT be allowed to do that, I don’t think I could be friends with that girl anymore, how inappropriate and rude and weird IMO!

 

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

LOL what?! This is so weird!!! I’d say no way for sure!

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