(Closed) Would you like these earrings as a BM gift?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
4062 posts
Honey bee

Neither are of my taste, but as the bride, I think you call the shots, as far as wedding day outfits go.

Post # 3
746 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

texaslemon:  i dont know!!! their both so beautiful!

hmmm. i think the studs maybe, but thats cuz i love studs and those look stunning!!!

Post # 4
797 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

I love gorjana too!

I vote studs.  Studs are generally easier to plan around (i.e., you can still wear a necklace, you can have your hair up or down, etc).  Both are very pretty.

Post # 5
901 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - 11/15/14-Vineyard

You would have to know each of their styles. Personally and honestly, I would not wear either as they are not “me” at all. Neither would I use a mismatched monogrammed champagne glass. 

Only you can decide what you feel is best for your BMs.

Post # 6
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I never take out my diamond studs, so I’d appreciate the thought, but likely re-gift earrings.  Theyre pretty, but they might not be everyone’s style.  

The best bridesmaid gifts I’ve seen are ones that are tailored for the person.  My friend gave her girls 1. A fancy cycling jersey for the cyclist 2. A spa gift certificate for her girl who is a spa/beauty junkie and 3. An iPod shuffle for her friend who had been wanting one. 

Post # 7
7084 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

They are not to my tastes but I would wear them for your wedding if you asked me to. I woulnd’t count them as a gift, though, because they are for your wedding day look and the outfit I am wearing for you, so they’re not really for me at all.

+1 for PP who said one mongrammed glass does me no good. That would go right to the back of the cabinet till the next time I got rid of stuff, and then it would go off to the goodwill. Most folks don’t drink champagne very often and when they do drink it, they don’t usually drink it alone. Maybe give two stylish wine glasses without monograms instead.

Post # 8
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

love the dangaling first ones! I may have to order them myself.

Post # 9
282 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Antique Rose Emporium

I don’t really like either of them to be honest >.< but I personally would prefer to receive option 2 as a gift.

Post # 10
12160 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014


texaslemon:  I don’t love the studs, the others I’d wear again and again.  But you’re the bride and you’re paying so I’ll wear what you tell me!

Post # 11
1224 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Neither is my style, but I only wear studs so I’d choose option 2.

Post # 12
4704 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I never take out my diamond studs and don’t like gold plated jewelry so neither option would be of any use to me.

Nor would a monogrammed champagne glass, I drink champagne alone but also serve it to guests. Having one single glass would throw off the layout of both my crysal cupboard and my bar cart and I’d likely put it somewhere else and forget about it. Monogrammed glassware is also not something I’m into.

I think if you’re giving gifts they should be tailored to each person and also, if you want them to wear the earrings on your wedding day. Its not a gift.

Post # 13
941 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

texaslemon:  Neither of those earrings are my taste & would not wear them in my day to day. But I would certainly wear them for your wedding if I was your BM. You know your bridesmaids best, go with your gut & what you think they would like.

Post # 14
154 posts
Blushing bee

Neither are my style but if I had to pick it would be the dangle ones…I would not wesr them again however.  i am giving my maids robes from Love Ohpelia, and treating them to a spa day a couple of days before the wedding.

Post # 15
2125 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I would love both of them, but would probably wear the cute little branch studs more.

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