(Closed) Would you like this gift?

posted 6 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Would you like an Marokka handmade bowl?
    Yes : (34 votes)
    61 %
    No : (22 votes)
    39 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @Pompadour:  I think its a very thoughtful gift! Typically people give cash or a gift from the registry. You mentioned you would be giving money with it as well- I definitely think this will be a fantastic gift!

    Post # 4
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    46412 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    A bowl like that is more like artwork for the home. I don’t give art unless I am 100% sure I know their taste.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @Pompadour: Do they have a registry? The bowl is lovely, but if you dont know the couples taste then it could just end up being another unused wedding gift. 

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I like it. I think the bowl is really unique!

    @Pompadour I have a hard time finding a gift. I’m not sure what American’s like.

    Have you looked to see if they have a registry? These are really common in the US to tell guests what the bride and groom would like. And if they didn’t register, it normally means they would just like cash to start their new lives.

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I’d like it

    Post # 9
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I think it sounds good then!! If you’re flying in from overseas for their wedding, I’m sure they don’t expect a big gift and will be excited you’re coming.

    Post # 10
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    I think it’s a great idea, it’s something unique and interesting, and if you are also pairing it with a monetary gift that’s even better!

    Post # 11
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Pompadour:  yes it’s a fruitbowl, but the sheer size of it makes it function as art. If it’s not full of fruit, and chances are a couple wouldn’t have that much fruit unrefrigerated at any one time, it would have to remain on the table as a decor piece or be stwoed away.

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I would love it!

    But I’m not your friends, although I’m guessing that if they were your neighbors, it’s at least a lovely gesture to remind them of some place they’ve spent time. 

    The common American tradition these days is to set up a gift registry, most of which are available online. This is the best option if you want to be absolutely sure that you give them something they want. You can go to http://www.weddingchannel.com and find a section to look up your friends’ names (upper righthand corner, I think?) and that will search most of the major retail chains that lots of couples register with. The advantage for you is that you can purchase and get it shipped online, so you don’t need to do international shipping or anything like that. If you can’t find them through that search engine, you can also call up the couple (or their family) and ask them directly. 

    Money is also acceptable (and appreciated) but it’s certainly not expected and it’s not necessary to do both a monetary contribution and a gift (unless you really want to). 

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I would love something that brings your culture with you if I invited you to my wedding and you had to travel.  That is to say, I registered for lots of cool stuff, but I would be pleased as punch if my Future Father-In-Law brought something from China that he thought every newlywed couple needed in their home. 

    The bowl is lovely and I would be happy to get it (even if my fiance wouldn’t as much).  I hope the couple would realize it was heartfelt. 

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Personally, I like it—especially since the couple is not registered for other bowls.

    I think is a very nice sentiment to give something that the couple will look at years from now, and know that it is from you. My parents received a gorgeous engraved silver Paul Revere bowl for their wedding from a family friend, and they (and growing up I) thought of them every time it was used. 

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I like it very much because it has my favorite colors and would match my home decor. However, if it would not match the couple’s home decor or style of if they don’t have the space to display it, it may end up sitting in a closet, or even regifted.  It is a beautiful bowl, but I wouldn’t give it as a wedding gift.  

    I did not vote because YES, I like it, but NO I would not give it as a wedding gift.

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