(Closed) Would you make out with another woman to turn your guy on?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you make out with a woman to turn your SO on?

    Sure, I ll try anything once.

    Depending on the situation and who the other woman is.

    No, what is this, college?

  • Post # 2
    4520 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Nope, not really interested. I had a crush on a woman once and would have kissed her, but not for the entertainment of others.

    Post # 3
    557 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I have before when I was younger, way before I met DH. It’s not something that I would do now. Then again, he has stated before that he thinks cheating is cheating, male or female, and he’s not interested in seeing me kiss anyone but him. I’m totally okay with that! Lol.

    Post # 4
    342 posts
    Helper bee

    No. If my SO is asked me to do it, I’d make him rethink his priorities.

    Edit: And I’d like to think he knows better.

    Post # 5
    788 posts
    Busy bee

    Absolutely not. I’m heterosexual, so I would pretty much only kiss another woman if it were a matter of life and death. I’d never do something I don’t want to do just to give other people sexual(!) entertainment. Of course, your friend probably wasn’t opposed to it, so it likely wasn’t a big deal for her.

    Post # 6
    229 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic

    No, I personally find it sexist and demeanin but that’s just my opinion.

    Post # 7
    563 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I would be offended. But I’d probably point to another guy and be like,”oh,what about him? I’d love to make out with him! Come on,come watch!” Lol 

    Post # 8
    937 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 1975

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    sweetis:  I’m in the “What is this, College?” Category. Not in my late 20s as I’m getting married in 2 weeks. Nor would my husband-to-be egg that on or appreciate the act. Can’t be bothered with those antics.

    Post # 9
    9076 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Nope. I’m an adult and I don’t need to act like an experimenting teenager to turn my husband on.

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    Post # 10
    1386 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

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    sweetis:  It’s completely sexist and demeaning. That’s not something that can be argued.

    Post # 11
    2863 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Ok, I voted “no, what is this college” but then remembered I did this years ago when a friend asked me because she wanted to tease her ex boyfriend who was watching us. But we faked kissing, he was too far away to really see. Juvenile, I know.

    Post # 12
    2505 posts
    Sugar bee

    I said “no, what is this college” because I have done it in college. But I’m not an 18/19 year old drunk on boxed wine anymore, I’m a 25 year old about to get married. So I have done it, but wouldn’t now.

    I’ve also done purely for my own entertainment, not someone else’s.

    Post # 13
    410 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Hmmm, it’s not something my Fiance would ask me to do…but there have definitely been times where we’ve been out dancing together and a good (girl) friend and I have tipsily kissed in front of him. He definitely didn’t mind 😀 

    Post # 14
    351 posts
    Helper bee

    No way.  If he asked me, then I’d ask him to kiss another man!

    Post # 15
    282 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    No, I wouldn’t make out with a woman for any reason. I have in the past and I felt cheap afterwards. Look at it this way, your man wouldn’t make out with another guy if you asked him to. I’m not interested in getting my fiance’s friends worked up, anyway. That’s not my job.


    I’ll be honest, I’m grossed out by women who engage in lesbian activity purely for the enjoyment of men. If you’re doing it because you want to that’s one thing, but if you’re not into it and you’re only doing it to get someone else aroused or for attention then I think it’s just weird and gross.

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